(Welcoming and Groom's Procession)
Vanakkam marks the formal welcome of the groom's family by the bride's family. The bride’s family greets the groom's party at the wedding venue with flower garlands, aarti (gesture of respect & devotion), and offerings like coconut and turmeric. Baraat is the groom's procession, where he arrives with his family and friends, often on a horse or decorated vehicle, to the wedding venue. There’s usually music, dancing, and joyful celebration as the groom makes his entrance.
(Pre-Wedding Festivities)
Haldi: The bride and groom are covered with turmeric paste by their family and friends. Turmeric is believed to bring good fortune, purify the skin, and ward off evil spirits. Mehndi: This ceremony involves applying intricate henna designs on the bride’s hands and feet. Mehndi is thought to signify prosperity, love, and good fortune. The groom's initials are often hidden in the design for a fun post-wedding game. All guests are also welcome to get their Mehndi done during this event. Sangeet: An evening of song and dance, where both families come together to celebrate. The bride, groom, and their relatives perform dances, share joyful moments, and build excitement for the wedding day.
(Wedding Ceremony - Garland Exchange)
A fun and festive exchange of flower garlands between the bride and groom. This symbolizes their acceptance of each other. The bride and groom are lifted by their friends and family in a playful competition to make the garland exchange more challenging. This is a light-hearted ritual, signifying the start of their union.
(Wedding Ceremony - Swing Ceremony)
The bride and groom are seated on an Oonjal (swing) decorated with flowers. Women from both families swing them gently, symbolizing the ups and downs in life, and offer them blessings for a harmonious and balanced married life. Meanwhile, traditional songs are sung, and the couple is offered bananas, milk, and jaggery to signify sweetness and unity.
(Wedding Ceremony - Tying of the Mangalsutra)
This is one of the most significant moments of the wedding. The groom ties the Mangalsutra (a sacred gold thread or necklace) around the bride's neck, symbolizing their eternal bond. He ties three knots, each one representing a different vow—faithfulness, loyalty, and commitment to their marriage. This act is performed amidst chanting of sacred mantras and is blessed by the elders.
(Wedding Ceremony - Seven Vows)
Saptapadi, also known as the "Seven Sacred Steps," is where the bride and groom take seven steps together. Each step signifies a specific vow or promise that the couple makes to each other, representing their commitment to a lifelong partnership. The seven vows: Step 1: To provide for each other and nourish each other physically, mentally, and spiritually. Step 2: To develop physical, mental, and spiritual strength. Step 3: To earn and increase wealth by righteous means for a prosperous and happy life. Step 4: To acquire knowledge, happiness, and harmony. Step 5: To raise children with values and principles. Step 6: To stay together through joy and sorrow. Step 7: To remain true companions, best friends, and partners for life.
(Post-Wedding Games)
Nalangu is a playful post-wedding ritual where the bride and groom participate in various lighthearted games and activities. This is often a chance for the families to bond and have fun together.