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Are kids welcome?Are kids welcome?

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We adore your children, but we’ve decided to make our wedding a kid-free celebration. We hope you can enjoy a fun night out with us!

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When should I RSVP by?When should I RSVP by?

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Please be sure to RSVP by Friday, September 5th, 2025. Once RSVP is submitted, please send a copy of response to victoriruffin@yahoo.com or redge16@yahoo.com (please be sure to include meal choice). If your RSVP is not received by the deadline, we will mark you as no.

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Is there a dress code?Is there a dress code?

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Semi- Formal: Tuxes and gowns are welcome, and so are suits and cocktail dresses. Please do not wear any color close to white, respectfully.

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Can I bring a date?Can I bring a date?

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Due to limited space, only the guest formally invited on your wedding invitation will be accommodated. Unfortunately, we are unable to allow guests beyond that. If you received a plus one they will appear on your invitation and when you RSVP. Thank you for understanding.

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Are you registered? Where?Are you registered? Where?

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We’re blessed to have most of the household things we need as we’ve lived together for quite some time. Monetary gifts are appreciated.

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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Guests can start arriving at 4:00pm. Plan to be seated before/by 4:30pm. Once the ceremony begins no entry will be granted until cocktail hour.

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Will there be an Open Bar?Will there be an Open Bar?

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Yes! The drinks are on us and the hangover is on you. Please be sure to have your I.D. as the venue will not serve you if it is not present. THE BAR CLOSES AT 10:30PM. If you plan on drinking, please be sure to arrange transportation from the venue. We want all of our loved ones to make it home safely.

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Can I take photos/videos during the ceremony?Can I take photos/videos during the ceremony?

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Yes, you can but we do have a professional photographer who is capturing our moments as well. The photographer’s shots are TOP priority. Please be mindful and do not hinder the photographer from capturing our moments. There will be a QR Code at each table for you to share the moments you have captured with us as well.

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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Yes, please be sure to list allergies when selecting your meal choice when RSVPing.

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What time does the celebration end?What time does the celebration end?

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We do need to be out of the venue by 11pm. We ask that any memories you want to capture be completed by 10:30pm. Everyone should be walking out by 11pm.

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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Yes, there is plenty of on-site parking. When entering from Altar Rd. look for a blue flagged sign that says Pelister Park and that will guide you to the parking lot of the venue. If you see a blue awning that also says Pelister Park you are at the right place!