Victoria & Matthew
Wedding Party
Matthew Cook
Groom
Matt is the calm to Victoria’s storm, the steady hand, and the quiet strength behind so much love and laughter. He's hardworking, loyal, and always ready with a quick-witted joke or a warm hug. Whether he’s fixing something around the house, planning a surprise, or simply being there when it matters most, Matt shows his love through action—and it never goes unnoticed. He’s passionate about cars, dedicated to protecting others, and grounded in faith and family. To know Matt is to know loyalty, patience, and deep love. Victoria is proud to be marrying a man who leads with his heart and keeps her feeling safe, cherished, and endlessly loved.
Victoria Cook
Bride
Victoria is the heart of this love story—full of warmth, strength, and unwavering love. She’s creative, nurturing, and fiercely loyal to those she holds close. Whether she’s planning sweet surprises, making a house feel like home, or lifting others up with her words and faith, she puts her whole heart into everything she does. Victoria has a passion for caring for others, dreams of making a difference in healthcare, and loves all things cozy, romantic, and meaningful. To Matt, she’s not just his future wife—she’s his safe place, his biggest supporter, and the love of his life.
Khing
Best Man
Khing isn’t just Matt’s younger brother—he’s his rock, his ride-or-die, and one of the few people who truly understands him. Despite the age gap, Khing has always been wise beyond his years, offering steady advice, unwavering support, and a heart full of loyalty. Through some of Matt’s hardest seasons, Khing was the one who showed up without hesitation. He’s picked Matt up at his weakest, reminded him of his worth, and stood by his side with strength and love that runs deeper than words can explain. But Khing’s impact doesn’t stop there. From the very beginning, he welcomed Victoria with open arms and an open heart. What started as a brother-in-law bond quickly became something more—he’s felt like her brother since day one. Their connection is filled with trust, laughter, and unconditional support. After Matt, Khing has become Victoria’s best friend and closest confidant down here. Having Khing stand as the best man is more than a role—it’s a reflection of the loyalty, love, and unshakable bond he shares with both the bride and groom.
Cheyenne
Maid of Honor
Cheyenne has been by Victoria’s side for what feels like forever—through every season, every change, every moment of growth. She has never judged, never wavered, and has always been a safe place filled with love, loyalty, and honesty. Cheyenne has helped shape the woman Victoria is today, and their bond is one built on deep trust, unconditional support, and years of unforgettable memories. What makes Cheyenne even more special is how much she has embraced Victoria and Matt’s relationship from the very beginning. She saw how happy Matt made Victoria and supported their love with her whole heart. She has never been anything but proud, encouraging, and full of joy for their journey together. After Matt, Cheyenne is the person Victoria leans on the most. She’s been there for every breakdown, every breakthrough, and every celebration. From late-night talks to shared dreams, Cheyenne is more than a best friend—she is chosen family. Having her stand as Maid of Honor isn’t just about tradition—it’s about honoring the one person who’s walked through life’s biggest chapters with grace, loyalty, and love. Victoria couldn’t imagine this day without her.
Aung
Groomsman
Aung isn’t just one of Matt’s groomsmen—he’s his brother. Their bond runs deep, built on a lifetime of shared memories, challenges, and support. Aung has been a constant in Matt’s life, always there with loyalty, love, and that unspoken understanding only brothers can share. Having him stand by Matt’s side on one of the most important days of his life means everything. Family is forever, and Matt couldn’t imagine this day without his brother right there beside him.
Bear(Theodore)
Bridesman
Bear is more than just Victoria’s bridesman—he’s her brother and one of the most solid people in her life. He’s always been there when she needed him, no matter what. Loyal, real, and the kind of person you can count on without saying a word. He’s the one who keeps things grounded, brings the sarcasm when it’s needed, and somehow still knows exactly how to make her laugh when everything feels like too much. Having Bear by her side on this day just makes sense—he’s been there through it all, and she wouldn’t have it any other way.
JB
Groomsman
JB has been by Matt’s side since the very beginning. When Matt first entered foster care at just 7 or 8 years old, JB was the very first friend he made—and from that moment on, they’ve been stuck like glue. Through thick and thin, the highs and the lows, JB has always been there. He’s the guy Matt could tell anything to—the one person who never wavered, no matter what. If Matt was ever doing something wild or crazy, JB was right there beside him, ready to take on the world together. Their bond is one built on loyalty, laughter, and unshakable friendship, and there’s no one more fitting to stand beside Matt on his wedding day.
Zander
Bridesman
Zander is Victoria’s brother and just two and a half years younger, which means they grew up more like close friends than typical siblings. They’ve always had a playful way of teasing and lightly bullying each other—but underneath it all, there’s a quiet, unspoken bond. While Zander tends to keep to himself more, he’s been a steady presence through the years—always there in his own way. Growing up side by side, they’ve shared plenty of moments that don’t need words, just that familiar understanding. Having Zander as part of the wedding party means having someone who’s been quietly by her side all along, and that means everything.
Boen
Groomsman
Matt met Boen just before heading to California, and Victoria first met him back in AIT. Since then, Boen has been by Matt’s side through all the ups and downs—always a steady friend and trusted brother-in-arms. Matt remembers clearly asking Boen about Victoria early on, and Boen’s answer was simple but meaningful: only good things. When Matt asked if he should pursue her, Boen didn’t hesitate—he said yes. Since that moment, Boen has been more than just a friend; he’s been part of their journey, supporting them both and sharing in the memories, challenges, and laughter along the way. Having him in the wedding party feels like having family. PS: You're Sigma
KK
Bridesmaid
KK and I have been connected since childhood, and even as life pulled us into different directions and across state lines, that bond has never once wavered. She has been a constant in my heart through every season of life—through the laughter, the tears, the late-night talks, and the moments when I needed someone the most. No matter the miles between us, KK has always shown up with nothing but love, support, and unwavering kindness. Her heart is one of the most genuine I’ve ever known—she gives her all to the people she loves without expecting anything in return. Whether it's her thoughtful words, comforting presence, or the way she makes me laugh when I need it most, she has been my steady light through every twist and turn life has brought. She’s the kind of friend who reminds you that real friendship doesn’t fade with time or distance—it grows stronger. Having her by my side on this day means more to me than I can put into words. It feels right, it feels full-circle, and it fills my heart with joy to know she’s standing next to me as I take this next step in life. KK, thank you for always being there—for being my cheerleader, my safe space, my sister by soul, and now, my bridesmaid. I love you deeply, and I am so grateful to share this moment with you.
Mo
Groomsman
Matt met Mo—known to many as Morales—when he joined the Army about seven years ago. From the start, Mo wasn’t just a friend; he became the big brother of the group. He’s the one who gave Matt advice that forever changed the direction of his life, helping him find his way when he needed it most. Mo has been beyond supportive of our relationship from day one, always encouraging us, cheering us on, and reminding us what real loyalty looks like. He’s not just wise—he’s also one of the funniest people you’ll ever meet, always keeping the mood light and bringing laughter wherever he goes. Through every challenge and every chapter, Mo has been a true ride or die. Matt is incredibly proud to have him standing by his side—not just as a groomsman, but as a brother for life.
Madi
Bridesmaid
Victoria met Madi while training in California, and they instantly clicked. From day one, Madi’s warmth, humor, and honesty made her someone Victoria could really count on. One of the most memorable moments was the night Victoria first kissed Matt—she remembers earlier that day talking Madi to spill everything, and Madi didn’t hesitate to say, “Girl, he likes you, and you like him — just kiss him already!” That encouragement pushed Victoria to take the leap that night, and the rest is history. Since then, Madi has been an incredible friend and supporter—not just of Victoria, but of their relationship too. She’s been there through the highs and lows, always showing up with love, laughter, and encouragement. Victoria is so grateful to have met Madi during that training time in California and even more grateful to call her a lifelong friend.
Colunga
Groomsman
Matt met Colunga while working in the Army on a mission, and their friendship started in the most "Matt" way possible—he pulled him aside and said, “You’re going to be my friend.” And just like that, a brotherhood was born. From that moment on, they’ve shared everything—from nonstop dark humor jokes to tough conversations, long nights, and real-life hardships. Through the good, the bad, and everything in between, Colunga has been a steady and loyal presence. He’s not just someone you laugh with—he’s someone you can count on. Colunga has been there for both of us in more ways than we can name. Whether it’s 3 PM or 3 AM, he’s the kind of friend who will show up without hesitation. Having him stand with us on this day is an honor, but more than that, it’s just right—because he’s always been there, and we know he always will be.
Tommie
Bridesmaid
Tommie may be a newer part of my life, but she’s already made such a big impact. As Matt’s sister, she’s not just family by connection—she’s become family by heart. From the moment we met, her warm spirit, vibrant energy, and open heart made me feel instantly welcomed and loved. Tommie is one of those rare people who lights up a room just by being in it. Her outgoing, fun-loving nature brings so much joy to everyone around her, and her sweetness and loyalty run deep. She’s always there for the people she loves—showing up with kindness, support, and a laugh when you need it most. She has a beautiful way of making others feel seen, appreciated, and truly cared for. What’s meant so much to me is how she’s embraced me from the start—not just as her brother’s fiancée, but as her friend, her sister, her family. It means the world to have her standing beside me on this day, and even more to know that I’ve gained a lifelong sister in her. Tommie, thank you for being part of our journey and for becoming such an important part of my heart. I’m so excited to keep making memories together—not just on this special day, but for years and years to come.
Kyle
Ring Security
Kyle isn’t just my little brother—he’s my built-in best friend and one of the sweetest, most genuine souls I know. He brings so much joy and laughter into our lives, and there’s truly no one like him. On our special day, he’s taking on the very important role of Ring Security (because let’s be real—“ring bearer” just wasn’t cool enough for him!). He’s fully committed to the mission of protecting our rings with his signature charm, that bright smile, and maybe a few top-secret security moves of his own. He’s taking his job seriously—and looking absolutely adorable doing it. Watching Kyle be part of this day means more to me than I can put into words. From his sweet heart to his playful spirit, he reminds us what pure love and joy look like. I’m so proud of him—not just for being the best “Ring Security” officer we could ever ask for, but for being such a bright light in my life every single day. Kyle, thank you for making this day even more special. We love you so much, and we’re so lucky to have you in our lives—and right by our side on one of the happiest days of ours.
Meila
Flower Girl
Meila is our beautiful flower girl, and I honestly couldn’t imagine anyone else walking down the aisle before me. From the very beginning, she’s held a special place in our hearts, and the bond we share with her is something truly precious. Meila loves both me and Matt so deeply—and that love radiates in everything she does, from her warm hugs to her sweet smile and the joy she brings into every room. She has one of the purest hearts we’ve ever known—so full of kindness, compassion, and light. Whether she’s making us laugh, giving the best snuggles, or just being her bright, loving self, Meila reminds us what unconditional love really looks like. She’s the kind of soul who gives freely, cares deeply, and shines effortlessly. Watching her take part in this day that means so much to us is such an honor. It brings tears to my eyes to know she’ll be part of this memory forever. Having her by our side as we begin this new chapter as husband and wife is not only special—it’s perfect. Meila, we love you beyond words, and we are so incredibly grateful for the love and light you bring into our lives. Thank you for being such a big part of our hearts and such an unforgettable part of this day.
Chris
Officiant
Chris isn’t just Matt’s older brother—he’s the man Matt has always looked up to. From a young age, Chris has been the male role model in Matt’s life, showing him what it means to be strong, dependable, and full of heart. Whether it was changing a tire, fixing the A/C, or offering late-night advice, Chris has always been there—without hesitation and without fail. He’s the kind of person you can call any time, for anything, and know he’ll show up. His constant support, steady presence, and quiet guidance have meant the world to Matt. It was Chris who helped lead Matt closer to Christ and who set the example of the kind of man, brother, and now husband Matt strives to be. Having Chris stand at the front as our officiant is not only an honor—it’s deeply meaningful. Matt is truly blessed to have him in his life, and we’re both grateful to have him help us begin this next chapter, hand in hand and heart in heart.
Angie
Mother of the Bride
There are no words that can fully capture what Angie means to us. She is the heart of everything I know about love, loyalty, and strength. Throughout my life, she has been my comfort, my steady hand, and the one person I could always count on no matter what. Her love is the quiet kind that shows up every day — in the little things, in her sacrifices, and in the way she always puts everyone else first. Having her by our side on this special day is something we will treasure forever. She has loved me through every version of myself, believed in me when I couldn’t, and stood by me through every high and low. Watching her love me and now love Matt too has been so special. There’s something truly beautiful about the way she has embraced this new chapter with open arms and a full heart. Mom, thank you for being everything I needed and more. I love you with all of me, and I hope this day makes you as proud and joyful as you’ve made me my whole life.
Mama Emma
Mother of the Groom
Mama Emma holds a very special place in our hearts. She is more than just Matt’s mom—she’s a beautiful soul who has poured so much love, wisdom, and strength into the man I’m so blessed to marry. Her warmth, kindness, and unwavering support have touched us deeply, and we are truly honored to have her by our side on this special day. From the very beginning, Mama Emma welcomed me with open arms. She has always treated me like family and made me feel loved, accepted, and right at home. That kind of love is rare, and I carry it with so much gratitude. We love her more than words can express, and having her here with us means the world. Thank you, Mama Emma, for the love you've given and the light you bring into our lives.
Darrell
Father of the Bride
My dad has been a constant source of love, strength, and wisdom throughout my life. He’s the one who’s always been there with a steady hand, a patient ear, and a heart full of love. No matter what life brought, he showed up with quiet strength and unwavering support — always knowing just how to make me feel safe and understood. He’s the man who’s taught me what love looks like in action, who’s celebrated my wins and lifted me through the hard days. His support hasn’t just been for me — it’s extended wholeheartedly to Matt, too. From the start, he’s embraced our love with open arms, stood by us, and believed in the life we’re building together. On this day, having him by my side means everything. I’m so proud to be his daughter, and I carry his love and example with me into this new chapter. Thank you, Dad, for being my hero, my heart, and one of the greatest blessings in both mine and Matt’s lives.
Stout
Usher
Matt met Stout while on a mission in the Army, and from the start, he proved to be more than just a teammate—he became a trusted friend and a brother. From the battle desk to the line, they’ve shared plenty of serious moments, but somehow always manage to end up laughing together. Stout is someone Matt has always been able to count on—whether for solid advice, real conversations, or unwavering support in every decision Matt’s made. He’s been there through it all, never judging, always encouraging. When Matt found the person he wanted to marry, Stout didn’t just show up—he celebrated with genuine happiness, like only a true friend would. He’s more than reliable—he’s loyal, steady, and one of the few people Matt knows will always have his back. We’re honored to have him standing with us on such an important day.
Matthew
Father of the Bride
I’m so thankful to have my dad, Matthew, here with us on this special day. He’s been a part of my life since the beginning, and it means so much to have him standing with me as I take this next big step. I’m grateful for the memories we’ve shared, the laughs, the lessons, and the love he’s always shown me. Having him here is something I will always hold close to my heart, and I’m so glad he gets to be part of this new chapter in my life.
Gourrier
Usher
Gourrier is another one of Matt’s soldiers, but more importantly, he’s like family. With a killer personality, unwavering loyalty, and a heart you can trust, he’s the kind of guy everyone wants in their corner. Whether it’s at work or in life, Gourrier shows up—reliable, focused, and always paying attention to the little things that matter. He’s the kind of friend who listens when you talk and always has your back. We’re honored to have him stand with us on our big day. PS he can run one hell of a 2 mile!
San Miguel
Usher
If you see a ridiculously good-looking guy at the wedding, that’s probably San Miguel… or at least that’s what he’ll tell you! San Miguel is one of Matt’s fellow soldiers at the unit and has become not just a solid teammate but a solid friend too. Dependable, loyal, and always ready with a smirk and a comeback, he’s the kind of guy you definitely want around—on the battlefield and the dance floor. We couldn’t imagine the big day without him, and yes, don’t worry… he’s most definitely invited!
Patrick
Usher
Known affectionately as “Pat,” this guy is one of Matt’s soldiers and an all-around solid dude. With a great country-boy personality, a hilarious sense of humor, and the kind of loyalty you just don’t find every day, Pat is the real deal. He’s trustworthy, dependable, and always down for a good time. Oh—and ladies, he is single, in case that smile didn’t give it away. Top of the line, through and through!