FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP by April 30th.

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Are you registered?

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No, we are not registered anywhere! Your presence is gift enough, however if you're feeling particularly generous, please consider gifting a "Bao Lì Xì" (Red Envelope) or contributing to our Honeymoon Fund. We will have extra red envelopes at the welcoming table.

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What is a Bao Lì Xì or Red Envelope?

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Lì Xì is a traditional wedding red envelope. It is monetary gift given by guests to newlyweds, symbolizing good luck, prosperity, and support for their new life Learn more here: https://ceesbridal.com/blogs/fashion/vietnamese-wedding-envelopes/ Quick Overview: Symbolism Red represents luck, happiness, and positive energy. The gift inside shares good fortune with the couple. Etiquette & Guidelines Amount: In the U.S., gifts often cover the cost of your meal. Amounts also vary based on closeness to the couple, with those closest gifting the most. Lucky Numbers: Even numbers are best; 8 is especially lucky. Avoid 4: Amounts with 4 (like $40) are avoided, as it sounds like “death” in Vietnamese. When to Give: Please give envelopes to attendants at the reception entrance. Bills: Traditionally, new, clean bills. How to Give: Use both hands as a sign of respect.

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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Please consider arriving 20 minutes before the ceremony, 1:40 PM.

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Is there a dress code?

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Semi-formal attire. Please, no jeans or flip-flops. For those that would like to dress in our color palette, our color theme is Summer Citrus: all shades of red, orange, coral, and yellow. Guests are encouraged to wear an Áo Dài (traditional Vietnamese attire for men and women). If you’re interested, we recommend Áo Dài by Cute Sass, which offers modern and traditional styles in extended sizes. They ship from California, so delivery is typically quick. Please note: sizes run small, so check the size chart carefully. https://aodaibycutesass.com/

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Can I bring a date?

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We kindly ask that guests do not bring a plus one. Because we’re hosting a small, intimate celebration, we’re keeping the guest list to our closest friends and family.

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Are kids welcome?

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We respectfully request no children, except for family.

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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Yes, please let us know if you have any allergies or dietary restrictions, we will do our best to accommodate.

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Is there transportation to and from the hotels to the ceremony?

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Unfortunately not, please plan to rent a car, carpool or use a ride sharing app.