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We look forward to celebrating our love with you! Please look through our Vanley Ever After website for all details, RSVPs, and travel tips.
We look forward to celebrating our love with you! Please look through our Vanley Ever After website for all details, RSVPs, and travel tips.

Gabrielle & JamesGabrielle & James

FAQsFAQs

If you have any other questions than what we have addressed here, please reach out to our lovely Bride and Groom at 209.598.4247.
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Is this a destination wedding?Is this a destination wedding?

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Yes! While we’re California-based, our wedding is in Mendocino County, so most guests will be traveling.

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Are kids invited?Are kids invited?

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Although we love all of the little ones, we are keeping our wedding event childless (with the exception of the Vanley children). All guests must be 16 years or older.

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What is the wedding date and time?What is the wedding date and time?

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September 12, 2026. Ceremony begins promptly at 2:00 PM.

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Where is the venue located?Where is the venue located?

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Mendocino Stone Ranch in Gualala, CA - a coastal, nature-filled setting surrounded by redwood trees and ocean air.

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Will the ceremony and reception be outdoors?Will the ceremony and reception be outdoors?

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Yes, both the ceremony and reception are planned to be outdoors. Fans will be provided, Please feel free to bring your own accommodations, however we predict it to be a beautiful breezy day.

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What’s the overall vibe or theme of the wedding?What’s the overall vibe or theme of the wedding?

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A Vintage Fairytale. A Vanley Fairytale. Romantic, elegant, fairytale meets medieval rustic nature. Think soft romance, coastal earth tones, vintage charm, and intentional love.

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What is the dress code?What is the dress code?

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Your Bridgerton Best! Elegant attire with a soft, romantic feel. Dresses, florals, flowy silhouettes, tailored suits, and elevated textures (silk, satin, chiffon, velvet, wool, linen)

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What colors should guests wear?What colors should guests wear?

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Neutral, soft, and romantic tones are encouraged: champagne, blush, mauve, sage, beige, soft browns, muted florals, and classic black.

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Can I wear heels?Can I wear heels?

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The venue is natural terrain with rocks and uneven ground. Block heels, wedges, flats, or dressy sandals are highly recommended.

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Is there anything guests should avoid wearing?Is there anything guests should avoid wearing?

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Please avoid white, ivory, or anything too close to bridal tones. Casual attire (jeans, sneakers, graphic tees) is also discouraged.