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February 1, 2026
Carmel, CA

Vanessa & Vijay

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Do I need to attend every event?

Answer

No! We encourage our guests to attend whatever event/s seem to work best with their schedule and preferences. We are just excited to celebrate with you all!

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When should I RSVP by?

Answer

RSVP's will open up following formal invitations being sent out. RSVP's are due by December 15th.

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Can I bring a plus one? Can I bring my child /children?

Answer

Although we have many loved ones we would love to celebrate with, only those specifically named on the invitation are able to attend due to limited capacity. Thank you for your understanding!

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Are there any dress code requirments or restrictions?

Answer

Dress code details will be located below each event in the schedule. However, we request that guests refrain from wearing white for all events and refrain from wearing red for the Hindu ceremony.

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What is traditional Formal Tamil Attire?

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Men typically wear Kurtas. Women typically wear Sarees or Lehengas. However Tamil traditional formal attire is not required so please wear what feels comfortable for you! Please reach out to Vanessa or Vijay directly for a document with outfit details and inspiration!

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I have a food restriction, can I make a special request?

Answer

Yes! Please indicate any food allergy or dietary restrictions on the RSVP when it is available so we can make proper food arrangements! Feel free to also reach out to Vijay or Vanessa directly to share your food restrictions.

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