FAQs

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What is the dress code?

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Our wedding dress code is formal. We invite guests to dress elegantly for the occasion. Women: Please note that brown (chocolate, espresso, etc.) dresses are reserved for the bridesmaids, so we kindly ask guests to avoid brown attire. Men: A suit with a button-up shirt and tie is appropriate. We’d love to see fall-inspired colors - rich jewel tones and warm autumn hues like burgundy, emerald, navy, forest green, rust, plum, champagne, and deep neutrals. Classic black is always welcome.

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How should I RSVP?

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To RSVP, simply visit our wedding website's dedicated RSVP page and complete your response. We kindly request that you submit your RSVP by September 19, 2026, to help us finalize our wedding arrangements.

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Will the ceremony be outside?

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Yes, our ceremony will take place outdoors. Since we're celebrating in the fall, please dress accordingly for the season. The reception will follow indoors.

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Are kids welcome?

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We kindly request an adults-only celebration, creating an intimate evening where all our guests can fully relax and enjoy the festivities.

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Can I bring a plus one?

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To ensure we can accommodate all our beloved guests, only those explicitly named on your invitation are included. Thank you for understanding!

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Will there be alcohol?

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Yes, we will have an open bar for all of our guests to enjoy complimentary drinks throughout the event.

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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We recommend arriving at the ceremony venue by 3:30pm sharp to ensure you have ample time to park and be comfortably seated before our 4:00 pm start time. This will allow you to find your seat, greet other guests, and be ready to celebrate with us as we begin our wedding ceremony.

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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Yes, convenient parking is available at our wedding venue for all guests.

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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Unfortunately, due to the nature of our catering, we are unable to accommodate individual food allergies or dietary restrictions. However, we will have a variety of food options as our catering is buffet style to accommodate dietary preferences.

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Do you have a wedding registry?

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Yes, we have a wedding registry! You can find all the details on the Registry page of our website!

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Can I take pictures during the ceremony?

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Yes, we encourage you to take photos and share them on social media! Please feel free to tag us on Instagram @itsvanessuh and @ssjefe, so we can see all your wonderful pictures.

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I still have questions, what is the best way to contact you?

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For any questions or concerns, please feel free to text Vanessa (209-914-0550) or Jeffrey (510-209-2734).