I was returning from a terrible date in NYC and was hell-bent on erasing my profile on OKCupid. I got online and saw a lovely message from Ilhan- and we began to communicate. Hours of phone time later, we met December 10th 2015. During that phone time he asked, " I know what Vanessa the entrepreneur wants, what does Vanessa the woman want?" And when I asked him what he was seeking, he answered," To love and be loved." We were hooked!