Valerie and Desmond met through Desmondās cousin and Valerieās cousin. Each of our cousins were hanging out and socializing , He kept telling my cousin ( who I still to this day hang with daily) tell your cousin to ā HMUā š Iām like NOOOO ! I donāt want your cousin lol. Long story short I hit that man up , had 5 kids and itās been history since then ā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļø