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FAQs

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How Do I RSVP

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You can click the "RSVP" section on this website to RSVP. We will include a paper RSVP with the official invitation if you prefer to mail it back to us! Please RSVP before June 28th, 2026

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What If I do not RSVP in Time?

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Kindly RSVP by June 28th, 2026 We would truly love to celebrate this special day with you! However, due to vendor requirements, we must provide a final guest count by that date. If we don’t receive your RSVP by June 28th, we’ll unfortunately have to mark you as “Not Attending.” As much as we’d love to be flexible, we won’t be able to accommodate anyone who hasn’t RSVP’d on time This means there will be no seating, food, or drink available for those not on the guest list.

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What should I do if I cannot make it?

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You will definitely be missed! If you cannot attend our wedding, please indicate "Will NOT Attend" on your RSVP so we can plan accordingly. If you have already RSVP'd "Attending", but find that you will not make it, please notify Val or Bryan as soon as you are aware.

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Can I bring a plus one?

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Your invitation will indicate if you have plus one. If your guests name is listed on your invitation or RSVP, they are welcome to join.

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Are children invited?

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We love your little ones! However, this will be an adults-only celebration. Thank you for understanding.

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Where should I stay?

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We have reserved a room block at a nearby hotel in Riverhead, NY. Details and booking link can be found under the "Hotel Block" section of this website.

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Will transportation be provided?

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Yes. Shuttle service will be arranged from hotel to the reception (RGNY) and back to the hotel at the end of the night. Parking will also be available at both the church and vineyard. Exact departure times will be provided closer to 8/28. Please check back

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What time should I arrive?

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Please arrive at the church 30 minutes before the ceremony begins to allow time for seating. The ceremony will begin at 2:00pm.

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Will the Ceremony and reception be indoors or outdoors?

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The ceremony will be indoors at the church. The reception will take place outdoors under a tent at RGNY. Please plan accordingly for the weather.

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Can I take photos during the Ceremony?

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We are having an "Unplugged" Ceremony, no phones or cameras in use until the reception. After the ceremony feel free to take as many photos/videos as you'd like!

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Is there a Dress Code?

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Yes! The dress code is semi-formal attire. Ladies are encouraged to wear colorful cocktail, midi, maxi dresses or a pant suit. Gentlemen should wear suits and ties. Please no jeans, sneakers, and of course no wearing white.

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Are there any colors I should avoid wearing?

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We kindly ask that you avoid colors traditionally reserved for the Bride: Whites, Ivories, and Creams.

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What kind of weather should I expect?

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Late August on Long Island is typically warm with temperatures in the 70s-80s during the day and 60s in the evenings.

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What should I do if I have dietary restrictions?

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Please indicate any dietary needs on your RSVP. Our caterer will be happy to accomodate.

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Do you have a registry?

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Yes! Your love and presence are the best gift, but if you'd like to bless us with something extra, you'll find our wish list under the "Registry" section of this website.

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My question is not listed above, what do I do?

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Please feel free to reach out to Val or Bryan with any questions you may have about our day!