FAQs

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WHEN IS THE RSVP DEADLINE?

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Please RSVP by Wednesday, June 1, 2026. If we do not receive your RSVP by the date provided, it will automatically be marked as "DECLINED." We do not accept any RSVPs via mail, text, or email. Please type your name to find your invitation and accept or decline. Thank you!

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WHAT TIME SHOULD I ARRIVE?

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Please arrive at the venue no later than 30 minutes before the ceremony. This will allow time for you to park and take your seat. If you arrive after the start of the ceremony, you will not be seated and will have to wait until the start of cocktail hour.

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WHAT SHOULD I DO IF I CAN'T MAKE IT?

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You will be missed! If you can't make it please make sure to "DECLINE" your RSVP so we can plan accordingly with our guest count. **In the event you have already RSVP and are unable to make it we ask that you please give us proper notice so that we can arrange for another guest to fill your spot**

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CAN I BRING A PLUS ONE?

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We love that you want to share this special day with the people you care about! However, due to venue constraints and our desire to keep the guest list intimate, we kindly request that only married couples and partners in long term relationships that we have previously met are invited as plus ones. We appreciate your understanding and look forward to celebrating with you!

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ARE CHILDREN WELCOME?

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Even though we love the kids due too many factors, we respectfully request NO CHILDREN. This is an ADULT ONLY wedding (21 & up). We appreciate you for making prior arrangements.

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CAN I RECORD DURING THE CEREMONY?

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We are having an "UNPLUGGED" ceremony. We've hired professionals to capture photos/videos and we'd hate for someone's device to block. To ensure that our guest can fully immerse themselves in the joy of the moment, we kindly request that no phones, cameras, or recording devices be used during the ceremony. We want everyone to be present and enjoy this special day without distractions. Our professional photographer will capture the magic of the day, and we'll make sure you have plenty of opportunities to take photos during the reception. Thank you for your understanding and cooperation!

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WHAT SHOULD I WEAR

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We'd love to see our family and friends dressed up with us so the dress code is elegant and formal attire. Ladies can wear floor length, tea length, or midi formal dresses. Gentleman can wear a suites, dress pants, dress shirts, or trousers. ABSOLUTLY NO jeans, trainers, flip flops, graphic tees, tank tops, or t-shirts will be turned around. GUEST COLORS: Maroon, Brown, or Navy

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WILL THERE BE A OPEN BAR?

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Is an elephant heavy? Of course! All alcoholic drinks must be accompanied by a mixer. Due to venue restrictions there will be no single shots or any outside alcohol allowed. While the drinks are on us the hangover is on you! Please drink responsibly. Tips are welcomed!

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ARE THERE ANY COLORS GUEST SHOULD AVOID WEARING?

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Our wedding party will be wearing EMERALD GREEN, GOLD, and IVORY. We ask that you please refrain from wearing these colors as we wish for our wedding party to stand out. In addition to this please do not wear white, ivory, cream or a similar shade.

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IS THERE A REGISTRY?

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Your presence is the greatest gift! While we appreciate any gifts you might consider, we're excited to start our new life together and would love your contribution to our honeymoon fund instead of a traditional registry. You can contribute via our Cash App $Upshurwedding26, Venmo @Upshurwedding2026, or cash.