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RSVP Details?RSVP Details?

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Please RSVP no later than May 1, 2026. All RSVP's not accepted by this date will be presumed to unfortunately not be able to join us. If anything within your reservation changes, please do not hesitate to let us know as soon as possible. If anyone in your reservation party needs special accommodations, please let us know. Keep an eye out for that mailbox as physical, formal invitations will be sent out in March 2026. Reception details and venue address will be included in physical, formal invitations.

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Plus Ones or Substitutes?Plus Ones or Substitutes?

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As much as we would love to celebrate with as many people as possible, we have carefully crafted the guest list for our special day. If someone from your family reservation list can not attend, we completely understand, but unfortunately, at this moment, we cannot substitute or add to the list.

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Wedding Registry?Wedding Registry?

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We truly appreciate any desire to support us in the form of a gift, but your presence on this special day is more than enough. If you would like to make a financial gift to support our honeymoon aspirations, please Zelle or Venmo us directly if you feel called to do so. Thank you in advance!

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Dress Code?Dress Code?

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Our dress code is semi-formal and we hope to see you all in suits and gowns in shades of blue. Please be sure to keep the hot weather in mind!

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Are Children Welcome?Are Children Welcome?

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We love your little ones and we welcome all families to our nuptial mass ceremony at Mission Santa Clara. However, for our special day, we have decided to keep our wedding reception adults-only, so that everyone can fully enjoy the evening with us. We hope you'll take this as a chance for a special date night!