FAQs

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Did you change the location of the ceremony?

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Yes. The church listed on the save the dates is different from the one listed on the wedding invitations and website. For personal and logistical reasons we changed churches for the ceremony.

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Wedding guest attire?

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Black tie formal. Please dress modestly in accordance to the rules of the Eastern Orthodox/Melkite Catholic Churches for the ceremony. Suits and tuxes do not actually have to be black (we love to see all colors). Red is an acceptable color for anyone to wear (wear as much red as you would like ladies!). It's fine if your dress doesn't go all the way to the floor. Also please do not worry about outshining anyone (In Arab culture everyone dresses really really fancy out of love and respect for the couple getting married). Feel free to bring extra shoes for dancing! Don’t hesitate to ask us any questions! (And yes, we actually would love to hear them.) Ladies please don’t wear white or near white clothes (a white or cream background dress with some florals counts as white. Small white dots or spots on a dress is fine. A colored dress with some white sections is fine). A white sweater/cardigan, shawl, purse or even shoes are fine. Small children are always welcomed to wear white.

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What are the modesty rules of the Eastern Orthodox/Eastern Catholic Churches?

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Knee length and longer pants, skirts and skirt slits only please. Typically just above the knee is fine. Please no low back or backless tops or dresses. Cleavage/chest area should be completely covered, as should the stomach and midriff area. You may show your shoulders. "Tight" clothes or dresses are not considered inappropriate. For weddings spaghetti straps are fine, but no strapless dresses or tops please (one shoulder is fine). (Any regular day at church you would not be allowed to wear thin straps. Many of these churches don’t allow for shoulders to be shown at all.)

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Can I wear a church veil (mantilla)?

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Yes. In our church it is always allowed. Some women will use a scarf or shawl instead of a lace mantilla. Any color is fine.

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Will guests be able to receive the Eucharist at the wedding ceremony?

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No. In the Byzantine wedding ceremony the Priest does not give communion to the guests.

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Will dietary restrictions and allergies be accommodated?

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Yes!!! Our venue is very accommodating. When you RSVP for the reception it will ask you what meal type you want and if you have any dietary restrictions or allergies.

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Is there a digital wedding invitation I can save to my phone?

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Yes. Just click the gallery tab at the top of this website and there are digital copies of the physical wedding invitation that you can save.

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Can I get a physical wedding invitation?

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Yes. When you RSVP for the ceremony, it will ask if you would like a physical wedding invitation and how you would like to receive it.

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What’s the last date to RSVP?

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We would ideally need all RSVPs by September 17. Don’t hesitate to reach out if there’s an issue getting it finalized by the 17th.

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Are you registered? Where?

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We have a registry on Amazon which is linked under the registry tab at the top of this website.

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Does my gift have to be from the registry?

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No, of course not! Many relatives asked for one so we created one. There will be a table at the reception for cards and gifts.

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Do you have a hotel room block?

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Yes. We have a room block at the Eaglewood Resort and Spa in itasca. The information is under the travel tab. The last guaranteed day to join the room block is September 17th. After that date, it’s at the discretion of the hotel and their availability if they can possibly add you to it.

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Can we post photos or videos of the wedding online?

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Yes of course! We just ask that you get permission of the parents of any children (including the flower girl and ring bearers) that are in your photos or videos before you post them. Many parents nowadays choose not to post their children online for safety concerns. You can always cover the child’s face with an emoji before posting it.