we exchanged our first text messages: HARMAN: Hey there, this is Brett from Tinder TRAPP: Haha hey there brett from tinder. My last names Trapp FYI. HARMAN: Good to know. I'm brett harman. Wow that was fast! This profound little exchange happened several weeks after matching on an online dating app called Tinder. After weeks of texting back and forth (and general, mutual flakiness), we finally set up a date in the real world. So on May 7, 2015, we went to a little taco place in west Atlanta. It was super casual. Without going into all the details, the date didn't exactly go great. It was over in about an hour (😬). And we really didn't communicate for the next several months. We both moved on, but neither of us forgot about "that other Brett from Alabama." In August of 2015, Brett Harman followed Brett Trapp on Instagram. Trapp definitely had not forgotten the handsome boy from Tuscaloosa and texted him within seconds (Harman still thinks it's funny how quickly Trapp texted him). Communication was re-established, laughs were had about that bad first date, and we decided to give it a fresh new start. And we've been with each other ever since. Honestly, neither of us ever thought this was possible. We'd both abandoned the idea of love, and even after we began to date people, wasn't sure we'd ever find someone to spend our lives with. This still doesn't seem real most days. But it is so, so good. Our wedding day represents the end of a long story and the beginning of a new one. We're beside ourselves with joy and we're so glad you'll be joining us for the occasion. We'd love for this day to be less about us and more about the amazing people who have loved us up unto this point in life. In case we don't get a chance to say it at the wedding, please know how much we love you. ❤️ - Brett & Brett