Great question! Isaac and I value quality time very highly. With so many friends scattered across the country, a dream of ours was to celebrate all weekend long!!! With our bridal party, friends & family! Being able to provide limited lodging to our bridal party and family gives us the chance to extend the celebration beyond the ceremony itself.
For the wedding itself, we want colorful, fun outfits that make you feel celebratory and comfortable! Above all else wear something you actually like-we're serious go for it! For the rest of the weekend (Friday dinner, Saturday hang, Sunday breakfast), you don't need to be as dressed up, but maybe avoid sweats or t-shirt and shorts.
Short answer: no (unless they're individually invited / on the RSVP list). We love y'all and the guys and gals you have in your life. However, for the sake of having a smaller wedding, having a weekend wedding, and wanting to be surrounded by the people we care most about, we decided that not doing +1's would be best.