FAQs
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What is the attire?
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A black-tie wedding is a formal evening event that calls for elegant, sophisticated attire and a polished overall appearance. Guests are expected to dress in floor-length gowns or upscale cocktail dresses for women, and black tuxedos with a bow tie for men. It’s important to avoid wearing white dresses or white suits, as those colors are traditionally reserved for the bride and groom. For example, a woman might wear a navy satin gown with subtle jewelry, while a man could opt for a classic black tuxedo with a crisp white shirt and black bow tie, ensuring a timeless and refined look that matches the formality of the occasion.
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Are children allowed?
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Yes, children are allowed at our event. However, we WILL NOT be providing any babysitting services, and you are responsible for their behavior.
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What happens after 7:30 pm during the reception?
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After 7:30 pm, we will be switching the vibes from family-friendly to the 99's and 00's. You and your child(ren) are welcome to stay, but we will not be playing radio-edited or clean versions of our playlists. Nor will we be responsible for any dancing you may find offensive. An announcement will be made 10 minutes prior to the vibes changing, so you may decide to stay or leave.
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What is a Honey Fund?
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A Honeyfund is a type of wedding registry that allows couples to receive monetary gifts from guests to help fund their honeymoon or other experiences, rather than traditional household items. Instead of registering for physical gifts, couples can create an online Honeyfund page where they outline their travel plans or specific activities—such as flights, accommodations, excursions, or romantic dinners—and guests can contribute directly to those experiences. It’s a modern, personalized alternative to traditional registries, often chosen by couples who value shared experiences or already have most of the household essentials they need.
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Is this a Lesbian wedding?
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Yes, yes, it is, and everyone is welcome as long as you come with the intention to celebrate with us and shower us with love. No bad vibes or criticism is allowed.
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Can I bring someone I didn't RSVP for?
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Absolutely not, Please RSVP for each person you intend to bring with you. We need an accurate head count for dinner, and an unexpected guest will throw off our count. Please be respectful and RSVP in advance.
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Will there be an open Bar? And how many drinks can I get?
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YES, not only will we have a good time, but we will also have good drinks. ALL adults 21 and over will receive 2 tickets for complimentary drinks during our reception. Once you have used your 2 tickets, you will be charged for each additional drink you purchase. Cash and cards are accepted. A special wristband will be given to each eligible guest during cocktail hour. All proceeds will go towards our Honey fund.