FAQs

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Where should I stay?

Answer

We have hotel blocks at the Union Station Hotel in St. Louis and the Drury Inn & Suites in Arnold. This information can be found in the "Travel" tab. If you would like to have more space, there are many unique Airbnb and Vrbo options throughout the St. Louis area. Note that Tori and Jake will not be staying at either hotel block.

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Can I bring a date?

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You may bring a date if your invitation includes a guest. Thank you for understanding and celebrating with us!

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Are my kids invited?

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We love your little ones! Due to space and planning considerations, we’re only able to invite the guests listed on your invitation, which may include your children by name or “and family.”

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Is there a dress code?

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We kindly request that you follow formal attire. Ladies: find your favorite long or dressy cocktail dress. Gentlemen: it's your chance to show off your favorite suit or sport coat! The ceremony is planned to be outdoors. The average temperature for late October in St. Louis is around 65°F.

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Can I take photos during the ceremony?

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We ask that all phones and cameras stay concealed during the ceremony. We have an incredible team of photographers and videographers on staff and welcome you to bring out devices following the ceremony.