FAQs

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What's happening with COVID-19?

Answer

During this challenging time, we have made the decision to cancel our wedding. Instead, we will be sharing our vows in a small ceremony with our parents in Washington on May 9th. Instead of a wedding, we are planning a one-year anniversary celebration for 2021! We will be sending out save the dates/invitations as plans come together - we hope you can join us then!

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I'm having trouble canceling travel arrangements. What should I do?

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If you're having difficulty canceling travel arrangements, please reach out to Tommy. He is an experienced traveler and is happy to support you in canceling plans.

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What is the dress code?

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Cocktail attire (somewhere between formal and casual). Bring your dancing shoes, too!

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Are kids welcome?

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Absolutely!

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Can I bring a date?

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If your invitation says "and Guest", then yes! Otherwise, please reach out to Tommy and Toni.

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Do we have to use the registry for gifts?

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We understand that traveling for a wedding can be expensive. You joining us in person or in spirit on our special day is more than enough of a gift for us. If you'd like to give a gift, you can use our registry (which includes a cash fund) or go off the registry with something from the heart.

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Can we see the happy couple before/after the wedding?

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We'll be pretty busy before the wedding, but please reach out and we can try to schedule coffee or a lunch!

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What will the weather be?

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In 2019, May 9th was 80 degrees and sunny. In 2018, May 9th was 60 degrees and cloudy. The Pacific Northwest is unpredictable! Our ceremony will be outdoors - weather permitting - so please be prepared for sun, rain, and anything in between!