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October 24, 2025
New York, NY

Lexi & Tommy are getting married!

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The Wedding Website of Alexandra Marie Aloi and Thomas Robert Smith
Here’s some helpful information about our wedding day! We’ve answered a few common questions to make planning your day easier. If there’s anything else you’re wondering, just reach out— we can't wait to celebrate with you!
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What is the dress code?

Answer

We recommend Black Tie attire for our reception — we want you to feel your best! Tuxes & gowns are optional — think of it as the perfect excuse for a glamorous night out. We can’t wait to celebrate in style with you!

Question

What time should I arrive for the ceremony?

Answer

Our ceremony Mass will begin at 3:00 PM. We recommend arriving 15–20 minutes early so our ushers can help you find your seat. Parking is available in the lot across from St. Brigid Church, with additional street parking nearby.

Question

Is there a break between the ceremony and reception?

Answer

Yes! The ceremony ends around 4:00 PM, and the cocktail hour begins at 6:30 PM. If you’d like to grab a drink or bite in between, here are a few nearby spots we recommend: CENA 081 Local Italian spot with Neapolitan fare and a full bar, right across the street from the church (0–1 minute walk) Monroe’s Restaurant Classic American fare and cocktails, about a 5-minute walk from the church (on Post Ave) The Farm Italy Modern Italian restaurant with a stylish bar scene, about a 5-minute drive from the church and close to the reception venue

Question

Are kids welcome?

Answer

Children are welcome to join us for the church ceremony, but our evening reception will be adults-only. We hope this gives the hardworking parents a chance to relax and enjoy a night out!

Question

When should I RSVP by?

Answer

Early is always better! Please RSVP by September 13th.

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

Answer

Yes! We’ve reserved a block of rooms for the night before the wedding and the wedding night at the Courtyard Marriott in Westbury. We’ve also reserved a block for the night of the wedding at the Garden City Hotel. Please see the Accommodations page for booking details and our discount code.

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