Before our Western wedding, we’ll honor Nigerian (Yoruba) heritage with a Traditional Engagement Ceremony; a joyful and symbolic celebration that unites not only us but also our two families. In Yoruba culture, marriage is seen as the coming together of two families and two lineages, not just two individuals. The engagement ceremony is filled with music, dancing, prayer, humor, and heartfelt blessings. Please see the link below for more information on the Engagement Ceremony:
For our Nigerian ceremony, we warmly invite guests to celebrate with us by wearing traditional Yoruba attire if they feel comfortable. Women typically wear an iro and buba (a wrapped skirt and blouse) or a fitted dress, often paired with a gele, a beautifully wrapped headpiece that adds height and sophistication. Men traditionally wear an agbada (a flowing, wide-sleeved robe) or buba and sokoto (top and trousers), styled with a structured cap. While traditional attire is warmly welcomed and celebrated, it is not required—guests are absolutely welcome to wear formal attire if that feels most comfortable.