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Looking forward to celebrating with you ❤️
Looking forward to celebrating with you ❤️
September 25, 2026
Cape May, NJ
#TheTomesTakeover

#TheTomesTakeover

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FAQs

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What happens if it rains?

Answer

If the weather doesn’t cooperate, everything will be moved indoors at the Grand Hotel. Either way, the party goes on!

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Is there parking?

Answer

Yes! Parking is available at the Grand Hotel for guests staying overnight and attending the wedding.

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What should I wear?

Answer

Beach formal/cocktail attire is encouraged. Dress to impress, but keep the beach breeze in mind.

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Will the ceremony be on sand?

Answer

Yes! We will have a walkway in place but it will not extend the full length of the beach, so some walking on sand should still be expected. Guests who may require additional assistance navigating the beach are encouraged to plan ahead.

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Will there be an after party?

Answer

Officially? No. Unofficially? (Knowing this crowd,) probably! Cape May has plenty of bars open after the reception for anyone wanting to keep the celebration going.

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Can I bring a plus one and/or my children?

Answer

Due to limited space, we are only able to accommodate the guests SPECIFICALLY listed on your invitation. If your invitation includes a plus one and/or children, they’ll appear when you RSVP. We promise it’s nothing personal, but tables can only fit so many people and we’re just trying to avoid accidentally hosting all of Cape May County.

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I’m having trouble RSVPing, what should I do?

Answer

Make sure you enter your name exactly as it appears on your invitation. If it’s misspelled, we’re blaming you because everyone submitted their own information months ago and we trusted the process. If it still doesn’t work, don’t ask Roxanne... she’s also overwhelmed and clicking buttons hoping for the best. Text Mackenzee at (609) 972-0060 and she’ll figure it out.