Meghan & Spencer
Wedding Party
Kailey Toler
Maid of Honor
Kailey is my younger sister. We are four years apart, so growing up we were not terribly close although I did enjoy doing photo shoots and make overs with her and her friends. As we got older we became partners in crime, literally and figuratively but you don't need those details. Sorry Mom. Kailey can be stubborn and formidable, which is good for me because I can be worse. She can also be sweet, thoughtful, and very helpful which is why she was deemed the Maid of Honor. Well that, and I don't think anyone else could handle trying to plan an event like this with me. She has an unusually high tolerance for my shenanigans, and usually joins in on them herself which is always a good time. I am blessed to have her as a sister, and lucky to have her as a friend <3
Remy Hnat
Best Man
Remy and I met in elementary school. The relationship we possess is unbreakable, we have seen each other through toughest of times. We have lived together, fought each other, partied entirely too much together, and have gone as far as vowing to never abandon one another. What we have is more than friendship, its more than love, our lives will always be entangled and our relationship cemented in stone. Remy you are my very best friend, love Red :D
Ayma Rouhani
Bridesmaid
Ayma and I were new kids seventh grade, which if you didn't know is the worst possible time to be a new kid. There are some pretty horrendous photos of us out there in the world because we were not attractive middle schoolers. The first time I went to Ayma's house, she made me macaroni and cheese (because that's what American's eat) with OLIVE OIL. I choked it down because, well, manners. I have since developed an affection for her Persian culture, and can give her full credit for my love of tea and olives. She is my go to for life advice because she is probably the most responsible person I know. She is kind, caring, loyal, and passionate. I dare you to talk to her about food sometime -- the lady will school you. Love you moosh!
Joseph Reiter
Groomsman
Joseph is my oldest brother and eternal tormentor. I owe my sense of humor entirely to him, growing up he was able to make fun of everything and everyone I knew, he taught me to laugh but most importantly he taught me the meaning of bravery. I am proud we are brothers and I am awestruck by his self sacrifice. Joseph we are brothers, I love you always.
Samantha Sammis
Bridesmaid
Sammy Shmammy hates that nick name, but she loves me so much that I get a pass. Sam and I met in seventh grade when I unknowingly took her name in French class (Claire). This was terrifying as the new girl, mostly because she had friends and I did not. Somehow she was able to forgive me, probably later that same day when we met again in Orchestra. Sam and I played the violin together, were in the same girl scout troop, and the same mean girl club (not the movie we were all just mean). She is laughably better than I am at pretty much everything. She picked up the cello at some point because, why not? JFK 100 mile race -- yeah sure. Start her own non-profit -- easy peasy. I think she's probably insane but I would bet a good amount that she thinks I am too. That's why we love each other <3
Phil Bozzuto
Groomsman
Phil and I met while we were still in highschool. We shared a close mutual friend who introduced us and our friendship took off and never let up. We spent many late nights discussing the female mind determined to crack the code, I can safely say we did. He is the single most dedicated person I have ever met and has challenged me to be the best person I can be. I love him dearly and if you know him I guarantee you love him as well.
Lauren Patton
Bridesmaid
Lauren and I technically met in middle school but she was WAY too cool to be friends with the new girl (i.e. me). This might sound strange but I cannot tell you how or when exactly we became friends. All I know is we were WILD in high school, and college. Well, I don't know if it ever really ended. Lauren and I live our best wild child lives together. Lauren is the girl I will call when I have to bury the body. Her level of sympathy and understanding is unreal, and I'm pretty sure she would side with me that it wasn't my fault, he had it coming. She is simultaneously the sweetest and most wild person I know, and I love that. What a great combo, amiright?
Brandon Reiter
Groomsman
Brandon is my second oldest brother and he achieves things that everyone has told him was impossible. He has taken care of me more times than I deserve, Brandon has taught me to always seek different perspectives, to love what you don't always understand or agree with. No matter the challenge life throws he faces it head on and I love him for that.
Sarah Ducolumbier
Bridesmaid
Sarah and I met at senior week in high school. If you know anything about senior week, you know that the fact we came out of that as good friends is pretty impressive. I had always heard of her throughout high school, but she was a private school girl and I was intimidated. Through college bonded over our shared struggle bus life style, and a good understanding of the joys of being the oldest in a large family. Sarah has accepted me in a way that is validating and strengthening. Sarah is, hands down, the nicest person I have ever met, which I worry is something she will hate that I write here, but it's true. Her love of other's and love of God is truly inspirational to me, and she will still be stupid and crazy by my side without hesitation. That is a good friend.
Kyle Wise
Groomsman
Kyle is my northern star. This man has single handily kept my life on the right track, he understands the meaning of adversity and has never wavered in his character and has never let me down. We spent high school and our college years slowly cementing our relationship and bonding through intense personal struggles, love of hiphop, and keen abilities to party hard. Kyle owns this world like the boss he is and I plan to be right by his side the whole way through.
Lindsay Yontz
Bridesmaid
Lindsay and I met when we moved into the same apartment at UMD junior year. Somehow we got rid of the other two girls and had the whole place to ourselves. The dishes were NEVER done. The recycling was always overflowing. There was KG in the freezer. The cupboards were laughable, but we were always having fun. I can probably say for certainty that there is not a single time Lindsay and I have spent together where we did not have fun -- that's our forte. Fun and our love of fur babies. Lindsay and I will buy a farm one day, raise all of our animals, and try all our might to garden; just you wait and see. We will grow old with wine in our glasses, fur on our pants, and maybe a couple tomatoes. It will be a glorious life. She is my soul sister, and I am blessed to have her as a friend.
Jesse Hoffman
Groomsman
Jesse and I met in high school and our friendship has grown year after year. We both share a drive and determination that continually brings us closer together. Jesse taught me to value myself, not with words but through his leadership and selflessness. He is kindest person I know and an incredible father. He has the biggest heart on this earth, I love him dearly.
Alexa Quackenbush
Bridesmaid
Alexa and I met working as servers at Facci, which is it's own little version of hell. In that little hell though, I found someone who shares the same interests as me which ranges from seriously basic to world affairs. I don't think there are a lot of people who could navigate our conversations. We have the grandest adventures, and a bad habit of drinking too much together and losing track of time, but damn do we know how to have fun. The girl knows my secrets -- she's the one you torture for info to blackmail me with. She is thoughtful, generous, and so supportive that I get away with things I probably shouldn't but feel ok about it because she says it's fine. Watching Alexa and I struggle through life could probably be a sitcom. I would watch it.
Vincent Wagner
Groomsman
Vincent is my Uncle and have known each other from childhood. We grew up making fun of our family together. We would get into all kinds of trouble often being punished for being crazy goofballs. He is a dedicated SOB and would out work any other person alive. He knows who his family is and he shows it every single day. I love the hell out of him.
Riley Toler
Junior Bridesmaid
Riley is number 3 of 4 in the sister line-up, and number 6 of 7 in the sibling line up. She's a mini me in a lot of ways. My mom will tell you she is mouthy, opinionated, and stubborn just like me. I will tell you she is sweet, stylish, smart, and funny (just like I am). Riley and I have the same sense of humor. I remember around Christmas one year when she was about 7 or 8, she said something so funny and she and I proceeded to crack up while the rest of the family watched us looking confused. Spencer told me once that she got all the best genes, and he's not lying. So here she is ladies and gentleman, the best Toler my parents have to offer. But damn is she funny.
Patrick Watson
Groomsman
Pat and I met in high school, and have acted like raging lunatics ever since. I cherish the countless pool parties he threw for his friends and everyone was always invited. He shows his love for others in everything he does and by always being there no matter what. He doesn't know this but I have always looked up to him, he is a really really good person and I will continue to do everything I can to follow his example.
Payton Toler
Flower Child
I specifically put flower child, and not flower girl for Payton because that is what she is, a flower child. Payton is the youngest sister, and the youngest sibling in my family. She and I are 20 years apart, and it is not uncommon for us to be assumed as mother and daughter. That and she and I look frighteningly similar. Payton is funny, sweet, smart, and absolutely adorable. The girl can out dance you any day of the week, and she's been at it since she could walk. She has the leadership skills of a dictator, but can turn around and snuggle until your heart bleeds which is what would make her a good president. She loves her fur babies and Taylor Swift. Those are the only constants I know because I am not nearly as cool as she is, and cannot keep up with the cool kids these days.