FAQs

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Are kids welcome?

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We have decided to host an adult-only celebration for our wedding. This decision was made with careful consideration, aiming to allow all our guests, including parents, an opportunity to relax and fully enjoy the festivities without worrying about the little ones.

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Is there a dress code?

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We’re excited to see everyone looking their best, and we’ve gotten quite a few questions about the dress code, so here’s a little more guidance to help! Our dress code is black tie optional, and we’d love to create an elegant atmosphere with women in long formal dresses and men in tuxedos or suits. To keep things cohesive, we kindly ask that women avoid wearing black satin dresses, as those are reserved for the bridesmaids. For men, an all-black tux or suit is reserved for the groom and groomsmen, so we encourage you to go for other options. We can’t wait to celebrate with everyone dressed to impress!

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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See our travel page.

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Can I bring a date?

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Due to space constraints and to ensure an intimate atmosphere, we kindly request that only those guests who have been allocated a plus one through their invitation RSVP with their designated guest.

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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To ensure that everyone can fully participate in our special day, we kindly request that all guests arrive no later than 4:15 PM for our ceremony, which begins promptly at 4:30 PM. Late arrivals will be respectfully asked to wait until the conclusion of the ceremony before joining us for the celebration during cocktail hour. Your punctuality is greatly appreciated, and we look forward to sharing this unforgettable moment with all of our loved ones.

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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Ample parking is available for both the ceremony and reception. Guests are welcome to leave their cars overnight after the reception, ensuring their safety. All cars must be picked up by noon the following day. Thank you!

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Can I take pictures?

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As we prepare to exchange vows and embark on this journey of love together, we kindly ask for your cooperation in making our ceremony an unplugged affair. Our talented photographer will be capturing every precious moment, allowing us to fully immerse ourselves in the magic of the moment without distractions. We kindly request that you keep your phones away and turned off during the ceremony. Additionally, we ask that you refrain from sharing any photos or videos of important moments, such as the first dance, until we have had the chance to do so ourselves. However, feel free to capture fun memories throughout the reception, and share them using the hashtag #tohaveandtohandegard. Let's make this day one to remember, filled with love, laughter, and cherished moments.