FAQs
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Is there a dress code?
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Not really! We’d recommend aiming for something around dressy casual or whatever the step below semi formal is. Don’t stress over it!
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What colors should I avoid?
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Wear what you have available, but if possible, try to avoid red to not match with the bride.
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When should I RSVP by?
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As soon as you can, but the deadline is 02/25/2026!
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Can I bring a date?
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Check your RSVP for if there’s a plus one option! If you have any questions, reach out to one of us.
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Are kids welcome?
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This isn’t a child free wedding, but it will likely be a very boring one without much for kids to do. Just give us a heads up if you’ll be bringing any kids so we can make sure there’s food and seating for them.
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Do you have any hotel recommendations?
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If you’re coming from out of town and are rightfully confused on how to pick hotel lodging in Pittsburgh then 1. Let us know so we can help out and 2. PLEASE let us know as soon as possible before the RSVP due date if you need help especially if you’re worried about cost accommodations because we will not be able to find a cheap option a week before the wedding and also I’ll start crying
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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?
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Yes! Again, please let us know as soon as possible so we can make accommodations. There will be vegetarian/vegan options as well as gluten free alternatives. It will be a bit stressful if we accidentally killed a guest so we’d love to avoid that.
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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?
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Yes! There is a parking lot across the street from the venue as well as street parking. We don’t anticipate a lack of parking being an issue.
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What if I need transportation help?
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If you’re at all able to figure this out on your own that would be fantastic. But if a lack of transportation will make it so you’re not able to come, then please reach out so we can find some solutions together.
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I’d love to offer myself up to car pool! How do I do that?
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This isn’t actually a frequently asked question, this is us manifesting. If anybody is willing to carpool, be a designated driver, etc etc then that would be super helpful and eco-friendly.
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Do you have a registry?
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We do! There is a link to the registry as well as our Honeyfund on this site. But please don’t stress about getting us anything. As grown adults, we are already proud owners of plates, towels, and other basic household items.
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You have a Honeyfund, does that mean you’d rather have a cash gift?
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I mean like kinda because we would still like to go on a honeymoon at some point. But genuinely, your presence is more than enough and if you’d rather offload your collection of crocheted coffee cozies on us, or just wish us a good time, we’d be absolutely delighted.
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Should I bring anything else?
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Bringing yourself is more than enough! If you did want to bring anything extra then drinks (pop, beer, wine, juice, etc) or something for the Pittsburgh Cookie Table would be great.
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Is there an open bar?
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There is a “you can take whatever drinks you want until we run out of whatever we bought last minute at the corner store because we are not hiring a bartender and also TJ has bad taste in beer so maybe bring your own if this matters to you”
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Is this a dry wedding?
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It’s not! We’ll probably have alcohol because we already paid the alcohol fee! We did not pay a cleaning fee though, so please be so so so reasonable.
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I really wanna help clean! I’m just absolutely crazy about cleaning! Can I PLEEEEAAAASE stay late and help you clean?
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Haha, I mean if you insist, who are we to stop you, you party animal!
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Isn’t this too many FAQs?
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Yes. We have anxiety issues. If something isn’t addressed here, please reach out to one of us as soon as possible so we can help out. Unless it is the actual wedding day! We will be too busy coping with our aforementioned anxiety issues to answer questions on the wedding day!