Q + A

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How do I RSVP?

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RSVPs are currently not open right now and will open once formal invitations are sent out.

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What’s the dress code?

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The dress code is Black Tie Optional with mid to floor length dresses. We’d love to see our guests dressed to impress—tuxedos, formal suits, and evening gowns. If you’re in the mood to go all out, please do! We kindly ask that guests avoid wearing white or off-white dresses.

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Can I bring a plus one?

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We’re keeping our guest list intimate and thoughtfully curated. If your invitation includes a guest, we’d love for you to bring them! Otherwise, we hope you’ll understand that we’re only able to accommodate those listed on the invite. Thank you so much for your understanding and support.

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Can I bring my children?

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We adore your families and your little ones. With our large guest list, we’re only able to accommodate children from our families and wedding party. Please refer to your invitation for those included. We truly appreciate your understanding as we plan our celebration.

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Do you have a gift registry?

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Your presence means the world to us, and that’s the only gift we truly need! If you'd like to honor tradition, we welcome a red envelope (lì xì), a Vietnamese custom where money is placed inside a red envelope as a symbol of luck, happiness, and blessings for a new beginning. If you’d like to contribute our honeymoon fund, you can venmo us at @tina-la

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Will there be an after-party?

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We won’t be hosting an official after-party. We’re soaking in every moment of the day with you, and then looking forward to some quiet newlywed time. If you’re still in the mood to celebrate, feel free to coordinate with other guests—we know some of you will keep the party going!