FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

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We ask guests to please submit their RSVP's online by December 31, 2022. This will allow for adequate time for our vendors to prepare and accommodate our guests and ensure a smooth and fun-filled event. We also ask guests to please book their rooms (please see "Travel") with the discount code ChanValcarcel23 at the Grand Wilshire Hotel as soon as possible.

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What time should I arrive to the wedding ceremony at the Fordham University Church?

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We ask that all guests arrive around 11:00am to find parking and make your way to the church. The church is located in the middle of the Fordham campus and it may take some time to walk there from the parking lot. Additionally, for those staying at The Wilshere Grand Hotel, transportation is available to and from the hotel. Please be in the hotel lobby by 10:00am for pick up by our transportation vendor.

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What should I wear?

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The weather in the area in the month of March may vary but we do ask guests to be ready for cold or inclement weather.

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Can I bring more than one guest?

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The more the merrier! However, please indicate your additional guests through the online RSVP system.

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Are you able to provide alternative meal options?

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Yes, of course! Our caterer can accommodate special food-requests but we do ask that you notify us directly so that they have time to prepare your meal properly. For our guests with food allergies, our appetizer and dessert options will be appropriately marked if they do contain potential allergens.

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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Ceremony at Fordham University Church: Parking is available on campus. Please enter through the main entrance located at Southern Blvd. and security will guide you to the designated parking area. Reception at Loft at 350: Valet parking is free at the venue. The entrance to the venue is located on Pleasant Valley Way. Please drive up to the fountain for the parking attendant to receive your car.

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Do I have to stay at the Wilshire Grand Hotel?

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We have contracted with the Wilshire Grand Hotel to receive a special discounted room rate for our guests. The Wilshire Grand Hotel is also adjacent to our reception venue. However, if you would like to stay at a different location, there are a number of hotels in the Northern New Jersey area. Please note that hotels located in New York City will require you to travel a greater distance to reach the reception venue.

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How do I book a hotel room with the Grand Wilshire Hotel?

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Please call the Wilshire Grand Hotel to book with our discount code (ChanValcarcel23) to get the discounted rate and so that the hotel and venue know that you are guests for our wedding. (The booking system online will not allow you to book for more than 1 night. Calling the hotel will allow you to book for additional nights at a discounted rate.)

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Do I need to be Catholic to attend the church ceremony?

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No, you do not need to be Catholic to attend the church ceremony. However, we do ask guests in attendance to respect the wedding ceremony proceedings.

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Will coat check be available at the wedding reception?

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Yes, coat check will be available at the wedding reception. Signs will be posted to direct guests to the coat check room.

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Is there an open bar? Do you have premium drinks?

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Lucky for you, yes! Enjoy five hours of open bar to your liver's content. However, we do ask that guests to drink responsibly.

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What if I need to modify my RSVP?

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Please contact us directly at tiffandemilio@gmail.com for any modifications to your RSVP. For those whose plans change and are unable to attend, please let us know by February 1, 2023.