Whatever you want. Some people will be in a suit and tie, others will be in nice pants and dress shirts. Whatever you want to wear, wear it (although no tracksuit pants and thongs?). If I had to define it, I'd say "casually formal"
We have everything we need, and only really want your company on our special day. Should you wish to contribute to our honeymoon fund there will be a wishing well at the reception, but please don't feel pressured to contribute... your presence is all we really want as presents (cheesy indeed).
We understand that this is a great opportunity for many of you traveling to the wedding, to have a family holiday! As we will not be having children at the reception, this makes things hard for you since you wont know anybody in town to look after your kid/s, and handing them over to strangers is not ideal. We've got some family friends who will be looking after Harper, and your kids are more than welcome to bunk in. These are people we know and trust (trust the care of our own child to). If your kid/s would like to join in the Harper & Co-not-attending-the-wedding-party let us know and we'll make sure there are enough minders to go around. Please contact Tia directly, sooner rather than later.