FAQs

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When will I receive my invitation?

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We plan to collect addresses and send out our formal invitations towards the end of April 2026, so be sure to keep an eye out for them!

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How can I RSVP?

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When you receive your invitation, a RSVP card will be available. Please fill out the card and mail it back to us, or you may opt to RSVP here on our website, or contact us directly!

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When should I RSVP by? What if I don't RSVP on time?

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June 1st 2026 Please RSVP at your earliest convenience by RSVP link, or by contacting us directly. Your early RSVP will help us finalize the details and ensure we can accommodate everyone comfortably. We will reach out one time with a text reminder to everyone who hasn't RSVP'd. One (1) week after the reminder, anyone who hasn't RSVP'd will be marked as "not attending." We love you and will miss celebrating with you, but it is imperative that we give our vendors the final guest counts by their deadline to ensure that the event continues according to schedule.

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Is there a dress code?

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The dress code for our wedding is cocktail attire (semi-formal). For gentleman, this typically means a suit and tie, or a dress shirt with dress pants and a jacket. For ladies, cocktail dresses, or a dressy skirt and top are appropriate. To honor the bride and longstanding tradition, we kindly request that guests refrain from wearing white, or other light shades traditionally associated with bridal attire. Your understanding and respect for this request are sincerely appreciated.

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Can I bring a date?

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If your invitation is addressed to you and a guest, please feel free to bring a plus one. If it is just addressed to you, we kindly ask that you RSVP for yourself only. In an effort to keep the wedding as intimate and close-to-budget as possible, only guests formally invited on your wedding invitation envelope will be accommodated. Thank you for your understanding.

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Are kids welcome?

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While we love your little ones, we encourage guests to enjoy a night off without the kids, with the exception of close family children. Thanks for understanding!

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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If you have any food allergies or dietary restrictions, please be sure to share them with us when you RSVP, so we can accommodate your needs.

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Will there be an open bar?

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Yes! Drinks are on us but the hangover is on you. *drink responsibly* Bar last call at 10pm

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Where is the venue located?

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The wedding will take place at Fern Hill Barn at 89 Smithville Rd, Spencer, MA It was formerly called Zukas Hilltop Barn

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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Yes! When you arrive, feel free to park in any open spot and follow the signs through the double doors