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March 7, 2027
Shelby, NC
#BESTWEDDINGEVER

Thorne Family Wedding!

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Will the bar be ticket, pay by drink, or open bar?

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FULLY OPEN BAR! Prepaid by hosts, no tickets needed

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What should I or we wear?

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So for the ladies we’re thinking nice dresses, if your TRULY not a dress type of gal, a nice spring colored jumpsuit world also be acceptable, also women suits are accepted! As long as it is fancy and elegant For our guys joining us, we would like for you to wear a nice suit, a tuxedo or a button down dress shirt with dress pants, polo collared shirts are also accepted, please don’t show up in an oil stained work shirt and jeans! Khaki type shorts are also accepted, just like we said to the ladies as long is you know for sure that it is classy and elegant!

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Will there be food?

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Yes! We will have a very nice menu of different options you can get, along with appetizers, charcuterie boards and other foods! We will also be having wedding cake and a s’mores bar!!!!

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Will there be virgin (non-alcoholic) drink options?

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Yes! We will have plenty of non alcoholic beverages such as juices for the children and adults that would want juice, we will have lemonade and tea, sweet and unsweetened, along with plenty of soda options and water! Also virgin beverages!

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Can I bring a plus one?

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If you are put down as having a plus one already I would prefer you keep it only that plus one. If anything message me and we maybe can work something out! If you do not have a plus one already message me and you are more then welcome to have one! RSVP is VERY strict we must have the perfect headcount

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Are children allowed?

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Yes! We ask that if they cry or get upset/fussy you go to a private room/the parking lot/your car only to calm them down then you guys come back🤍, in the nicest way possible I don’t want to hear any crying during our wedding ceremony! This is very enforced, the father of the bride Adam Bolen will be available to escort you to a quiet room inside

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Will there be security?

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Yes!

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Are gifts mandatory?

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No! Not at all! While it is so very appreciated if we do get gifts and we will have a gift table set up, you will not get ANY side eyes for showing up empty handed, key word you showed up!

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What time should we be there?

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The schedule is also posted on this website, but we ask EVERYONE to be at the venue by 3:30 as ceremony starts at 4:00pm SHARP! If you are a groomsman, bridesmaid, best man, maid of honor, flower girl, ring bearer, father of the bride or set up crew we ask that you arrive around -10:00am-12:00pm (noon SHARP)!

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