FAQs

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Can I bring a date?

Answer

If your invitation says “and Guest,” then yes. If not, we would prefer to party with just you!

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Are kids invited?

Answer

We love your kids—we really do. But we want our wedding to be your night off!

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Will I have to pay for parking? Where do I park?

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Parking is available at Arrow Park - as you drive in, you will see a large lot to your right of the entrance to the Mansion. Best news? It's free!

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What should I wear? Are there any colors that guests should avoid wearing?

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August in the summer is hot, hot, hot! We want you to dress your best, but be comfortable of course. Lighter colors and fabrics are a solid choice. Ladies, please avoid wearing white - the bride will appreciate this!

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What should/could I do between the ceremony and the reception?

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Arrow Park is a beautiful park located near Sterling Forest (Thomas' middle name is Sterling, named after this forest!). Feel free to explore the mansion, take a hike or a nice stroll on the beach or in the poetry garden. If you're feeling especially adventurous, please take a boat ride on us! Ask us about boat rentals and meet us on the water!