My best friend, Lamar, kept telling me about a new Kappa who was well dressed and easy on the eyes. On the day after Christmas, I finally met this new Kappa, named Kevin. We were invited to a fraternity brother's birthday party at Del Frisco's Grille. Lamar was absolutely right. Kevin was very attractive and put together well. Kevin and I became good friends and confidants. After years of friendship, Kevin and I decided to date. It was Labor Day weekend and we met up for an unforgettable Sunday Funday at The Grapevine Bar and Taco Diner in Uptown. We talked for hours and hours and realized that we had a lot in common. It's safe to say he couldn't leave me alone.

Thomas and I first met at a birthday party for one of our fraternity brothers. The first thing I noticed was his infectious smile which lit up the room - oh, and his sherpa-lined Polo boots. Some things you don't hold against people. This was when social media was becoming more of an integral part of life, so shortly after we met, I sent him a friend request on Facebook. From there, he and I became friends. We ran in the same circle of Kappa friends. I would see him socially, and we would periodically hang out. I could tell he was into me as his energy shifted when I was around (although he will deny it I'm sure). In 2014, the stars aligned and we began dating. I appreciated his genuineness, love for God, and positivity. We had learned over the years that we had come from similar backgrounds and had a lot in common. The next seven years are history. We've had some amazing times growing, learning, and loving each other. We've traveled the world together, been there for each other through the toughest times of our lives, and supported each other in new life experiences. It was solidified that Thomas was the one for me when he showed up to support me and my family through tough times impacting the health of my parents. Not only was he present for me, he showed up to support my parents in ways I did not expect. Most of all, however, he prayed. I never thought that I would be getting married. Honestly, as a gay man who struggled coming out, I never thought it was in the cards for me. Thomas has helped me embrace who I am and God's love for me. For this, I am forever grateful. I cannot wait to: "Make it official. We ain't getting no younger baby and I'm ready to be with you." - In my Lil' Mo voice.

After 9 years of friendship, traveling the world, and lots of LOVE, we decided to purchase a new house we named, "La Casa De Las Colinas". We know many of you are curious as to who is supposed to propose in same-gender relationships. The answer is, it really doesn't matter. On December 26, 2020, Thomas proposed to Kevin at Williams Park, in front of the romantic LOVE statue in Dallas, Texas. With the help of a few close friends, Thomas was able to surprise Kevin with a sunset photoshoot and an unplugged performance of "If I Ain't Got You". In that unforgettable moment, Thomas popped the question, presenting Kevin with a beautiful Cartier timepiece. The evening concluded with a beautiful Veuve Cliquot Champagne toast with my new Finace'.