FAQs

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What can you say about the venue?

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The venue is located at Tommy & Alan's new farm in Smithfield, Kentucky. The wedding will be in an old, vintage dairy barn with a mix of outside and inside areas.

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What is the expected attire for the event?

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Layers are recommended, as the temperature can fluctuate throughout the day. A jacket or sweater is good for evenings. This is an October wedding in Kentucky, make it work. We recommend heels and shoes that can withstand gravel and grass.

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Are children allowed at the event?

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The children are welcome to the reception, NOT the ceremony. No children under 13 are permitted to attend the ceremony, but we love 'em and welcome 'em come time for the reception, dance party and other festivities.

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Why did it take you 10 years to get married?

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Sounds like none of your business.

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So who's the groom and who's the bride?

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If you needed an answer to this question, please uninvite yourself to our wedding.

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What is the temperature like in Kentucky mid-October?

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This is our opportunity to let you know that global warming is real and climate change is important. Expect cooler evenings and mornings, with daytime temperatures being pleasant but cooler than summer. Rain is possible, but it's not as prevalant as in the spring or summer months. Kentucky experiences breezy conditions in October, with average wind speeds around 12 mph. The peak of fall foiliage is typically around mis-October, providing a beautiful travel destination.

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Who should I contact if I have questions about the wedding?

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You are welcome to contact X, and ask any questions.

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Where is the ceremony?

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The ceremony is located in the vintage dairy barn on Tommy & Alan's farm. The addres is X, and you can park X.

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Where should I sit at the ceremony?

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It's been 10 years, at this point if you don't know both boys go home. There is no seating arangements and we would like everyone to site where they feel most comfortable. At both the ceremony and reception.

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What time should I go home?

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If you've ever been to a wedding with Tommy and Alan, you would know that they're close to, if not the last guests standing. This can be an all night party, but guests are encouraged to stay as late as they'd like. We'll make sure the schedule of events is made public closer to the date of the wedding.

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Can I bring a plus one?

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Yes. Everyone who is invited is encouraged to bring a plus one if they desire. Tommy & Alan are a "the more the merrier" type and up for any guests to join the festivities.

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What if I have a dietary restriction?

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Food will cater to vegetarians, the gluten free, and the seafood-free. No need to add dietary restrictions to your RSVP, we will not be serving individual dinners, and guests will have the opportunity to select what they'd like to eat from what's available. A member of the staff on site will be available to provide any answers to dietary restrictions on the day of the wedding.

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Will you be serving alcohol?

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Yes, there will be alcohol. The only thing we ask, is please tip the bartenders well.