To help us with our planning, please RSVP to the events as soon as possible. However, the deadline is August 15th, 2025. If we don't receive your RSVP by this date, we cannot make exceptions and will have to mark you as 'no'. We need to provide the venue with a total guest count in a timely manner, we hope you understand!
Due to limited space, we can only accommodate guests who are formally invited. If you've received a plus one, they'll be specifically addressed. Otherwise, we ask that only the named people in the invitation are in attendance. Thank you for understanding!
As much as we love your little ones, our weddings is exclusively for adults.
Feel free to embrace semi-formal elegance—tuxedos and gowns are welcome, as well as suits and cocktail dresses. As the ceremony will be held outdoors on the grass in Upstate NY November, we kindly ask that you dress warmly and comfortably for the season. The reception will be indoors, where you can warm up and enjoy the celebration.
If you choose to stay off the property, that’s absolutely great! Just a heads-up—rideshares like Uber can be limited in Windham, NY, so we recommend planning transportation in advance. For those staying at Wylder, transportation will be provided to & from the after party.
We ask that you kindly put your phones and cameras away during the ceremony as we want you all to be present with us in the moment. We have a professional photographer and videographer capturing the ceremony for us. Other than the ceremony, yes! Please feel free to take as many photos and videos as you like.