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Molly & Toby

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Molly Grosdidier

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Toby Ruder

May 31, 2025

KANSAS CITY
17 days17 d19 hours19 h35 minutes35 min56 seconds56 s

How it all began

“I have a girl for you to meet” Heard it 1,000 times from 100 different people. I always appreciated the thought because it was coming from a good place, but it was usually awkward and I would let the request die. I let the conversation with my sister-in-law, Elizabeth, awkwardly die once. Thanks, but no thanks. I don’t live in Kansas City. I don’t have time. Another lame reason not to put myself out there. There’s no way she’d be interested. Let’s save our time and energy. “Okay…her name is Molly,” Liz says in a last-chance text, before giving a brief bio. Liz gives me an amazingly accurate description of Molly being “very, very pretty and very sweet,” followed by this. “So anyways! I really truly think it'd be worth your time." At this moment, I knew my sister-in-law was serious. She is not one to waste her time or engage in this type of conversation. So I respond, “I would be happy to meet her.” Molly texted me back, nbd. At every moment, it's been "yes" with Molly. She's simply amazing. Now we’re getting married. I’m overwhelmed, thankful, blessed, and excited to be exactly right here with Molly.

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