Please let us know by August 31st about your decision to join us if you can!
The best suggestion is to be as formal as you are comfortable with! The dress code is Black Tie Optional, which usually boils down to suits and ties for the men, and short or long dresses for the ladies. Anything considered cocktail attire would be appropriate.
While we are more than thankful for the wonderful thoughts and gifts you were thinking of doing, we would suggest donating that money to our honeymoon fund. We will be taking some time after the wedding to get settled and will be waiting a few months or a year before we take our honeymoon. We would love your help with sending us where we have always wanted to visit : The Baltic on a cruise!!