FAQs
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When is the RSVP Deadline?
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All guests must RSVP by March 10, 2026! This will help us with planning and making sure we’re ready to celebrate with all who can attend. Please RSVP through the RSVP tab on this website.
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What if I didn't RSVP in time?
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Unfortunately, we’ll need to mark you as not attending, and we’ll certainly miss having you with us. It’s important that we provide our vendors with a final guest count by their deadline. We appreciate your understanding!
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Can I bring a plus-one?
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We’re hosting an intimate wedding with guests who have played a meaningful role in our lives. While we wish we could extend the invitation to more, space is limited. If your invitation includes a plus-one, you will see this option as you fill out your RSVP.
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What time should I arrive?
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On Sundays, the Slover Library is closed to the public. However, the Selden Arcade doors and the front entrance doors to the Library will be unlocked for our wedding. Please plan to arrive by 2:50pm. Keep in mind you'll need time to park in the parking garage and walk to the Slover Library. The ceremony will begin promptly at 3pm, and all doors will be closed at that time to avoid any interruptions. Once the ceremony begins, no entrance will be granted.
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What is the dress code?
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Look sharp, feel good! Think dressed-up but not stuffy, like you're ready to celebrate, not walk a red carpet. Wear any color that speaks to you. Just one rule: white’s off-limit, unless you’re walking down the aisle with us! As the night ends and dancing begins, feel free to change into your dancing shoes. We want our guests to be relaxed and comfy throughout the night!
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What is the best place to park?
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There are two convenient parking garages nearby that accept card payments: Hilton Norfolk The Main Parking Garage 185–201 E. Plume Street, Norfolk, VA Located on the same street as The Slover Library *We recommend using this parking garage, as it offers the easiest access to the venue. They also offer Valet parking. Main Street Garage 236 W. Main Street, Norfolk, VA Street behind The Slover Library
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Where is the reception?
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Lunch and dancing will follow the ceremony in the same location, 1st floor of the Slover Library, no travel needed!