It was girls night at a friends house, and Carlohn crashed it. That same night they had a stimulating conversation that lasted hours, but they both didn't think much of it. Fast forward to 4th of July weekend that same year, they bumped into each other again. 3 years, 2 apartments, and 1 dog later he asked Deja to marry him on April 8, 2019. Three years to the day after their first encounter.