It was my first big girl job outside of college. A small nonprofit located in the basement of a church in downtown Tulsa, OK. My first day on the job already consisted of nerves and meeting every employee. I remember clear as day the moment I saw him. I was standing at this open window space handing out clothing items to the guests and out of nowhere, he comes and slides over the counter and says a brief hello and smiles. I thought to myself, "Who the heck does this man think he is." But, that smile was all I needed to see to peak my interest. His pearly perfect white smile, and he was tall, dark and handsome. Since that day, I have always loved his smile. As I first got to know him, I never would have thought he would be the man I get to spend the rest of my life with. He was your typical bad boy and I was your typical fresh out of Christian college baby into the real world. Our first date was at Pei Wei and I was as nervous as can be that I barely had words to say, and if you know me you know that I love to talk. But that date ended in a perfect first kiss that started it all. We both were very infatuated as everyone around us saw. Early on in our dating I wasn't thinking I would end up with him longterm. I wanted to leave Oklahoma and explore around in my 20s, but God had different plans for me, and for us. The moment I knew he was my person was when through the ups and downs of his life and mine, we had created this bond that was unbreakable no matter how hard I fought it. I thought he just doesn't fit into my life, we come from different worlds, how can we make this work is what I constantly thought. But every thought I wanted to tell him, every win I wanted to tell him, every hard struggle I wanted to just talk to him and no-one else. That is when I knew this is who I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. He knew my faults, he knew my heart, he knew how to make me laugh, he knew what made me mad, he was patient, he was kind, and God knew I needed someone completely opposite from me. Our relationship grew stronger year after year and I saw the growth from when we first met to who he is now. We fit into each others hearts where we need it the most and I cannot wait to marry my best friend.