12:00 pm - 1:00 pm
A quick walkthrough of the space for family and folks involved in the ceremony.
4:00 pm - 7:00 pm
Casual Attire: Anything goes, from sundresses and sandals to jeans and tees.
A little get-together at our apartment first with family! Pizza, beer, cocktails, and snacks just for the family to come together before and see our space. It's obviously not a huge space, so we'll stay as long as it's comfortable, then head out to a nearby walkable spot with anyone else who wants to join.
7:00 pm - 11:00 pm
Casual Attire. Anything goes!
Just a casual time to gather for drinks and hellos the night before the big day at one of our favorite local spots. Order your own drinks for this one! But we'll have pizza out all night. We don't want to be out too late for obvious reasons, so let's help each other out and all head out by 11:00 pm, as planned. More info on the space here: https://www.instagram.com/roughdraftharlem/
4:00 pm - 6:30 pm
Dress fun, fancy, and funky! Feel free to wear that thing you have nowhere else to wear. Also feel free to just wear what's comfortable!
A casual ceremony officiated by a friend in a nearby park. All are welcome, but not obligated to attend the ceremony portion. Gather at the top lookout space around 4:00- 4:30 pm for some drinks from the cooler; enjoy the view and mingle. We'll bring everyone down the ramp to the ceremony spot as a group around 5:00 pm (2 min walk). The ceremony will begin at 5:30 pm and will probably last about half an hour. Open seating; chairs available and standing room for overflow (plenty of space). A chance for us to say some cute things to each other and let our nieces have their promised flower girl moment. Stay and mingle for a bit afterward and enjoy the space! We can stay until 7:00 pm, so stay as long as you like and then head over to Winnie Said for the party. It's a 20-minute walk if you prefer (a little hilly), or about a 6-minute drive to the next spot.
Sat, Oct 9, 2027, 6:30 pm - Sun, Oct 10, 2027, 2:00 am
Dress fun, fancy, and funky! Emphasis on funky. Feel free to wear that thing you have nowhere else to wear. Also feel free to just wear what's comfortable!
There will be an open bar for beer & wine, fully covered all night, with a full bar available to order from (beyond beer and wine). Food from Winnie Said will be available buffet-style/help-yourself all night. Choose from salads (Caesar, grinder), sandwiches (chicken, sliders, shrimp), sides, and bar snacks. You can also order anything individually off the Winnie menu separately all night (covered by us!). Full server staff will be on hand. Vegan and vegetarian options available. See the full menu here (ever-changing): https://www.winniesaid.com/menus There are a ton of other spots on the block to stop for food before, during, or after: Uncle Tony's Pizza (slices), Burger & Shake, local bodegas, etc.
2:00 pm - 4:00 pm
If you make it there, that's good enough. Wear whatever you want! Venue is casual.
A post-party gathering to remember the night and spend some time together before folks head home. We're reserving a space on a local (docked) boat bar/restaurant with casual drinks and bites available. We'll have food shareables available, but you can also order extras yourself. Feel free to come and go for this one! More information on the space and full menu: https://baylander.nyc/