FAQs

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How Do I RSVP?

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You can RSVP anytime by clicking the RSVP tab above. Prefer to send it by mail? We’ll include a paper RSVP with your invitation for your convenience!

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What if I Don’t RSVP On Time?

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Please RSVP by September 1st, 2026. If we do not receive your response by then, you will be marked as not attending. We would love to celebrate with you, but we must provide our vendors with a final guest count. Late RSVPs cannot be accepted, and unfortunately, this means we will be unable to accommodate you with seating, food, or drinks on our special day.

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What Should I Do If I Can’t Make It?

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You will definitely be missed! If you cannot attend our wedding, please select “Will NOT Attend” on your RSVP so we can plan accordingly. If you’ve already RSVP’d “Attending” but can no longer make it, please notify Isaiah or Leanne as soon as possible.

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Can I Bring A Date or Plus One?

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Due to our limited budget, we are only able to accommodate guests who are formally invited on your wedding invitation. Your invite will be addressed to ”(Your Name) & Guest” if a plus one has been included. Thank you so much for your understanding!

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Is This A Kid Friendly Wedding?

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We love and adore your little ones, but we have chosen to make our ceremony and reception an adults-only event. We hope you can use this night as a fun date night! Thank you for making prior arrangements so you can celebrate with us.

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What Is The Dress Code?

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We can’t wait to see our family and friends looking their best for our big day! Dress Code: Formal • Gentlemen: Formal attire, black tie optional • Ladies: Black floor-length gowns with formal footwear Please, no jeans, sneakers, or wearing white. Let’s celebrate in style! For visual inspiration, please refer to the Dress Code tab.

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Are There Any Colors I Should Avoid Wearing?

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We kindly ask that you avoid colors traditionally reserved for the bride, such as whites, ivories, and creams. Gentlemen may wear white button-up shirts, but please stick to the black color scheme for the rest of your attire.

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What Tine Should I Arrive?

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The ceremony time will be listed on your formal invite, and we ask that you arrive and be in your seat no later than 15 minutes before it begins. Arriving early is encouraged it will give you time to park, sign the guest book, and find your seat. Please note: if you arrive after the ceremony has started, you will not be able to be seated and will need to wait until cocktail hour to join the celebration.

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What If I Am Running Late?

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Our wedding ceremony will begin promptly at 5:00 PM. Please be seated by then, as late arrivals will not be able to enter until after the ceremony.

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Can I Take Photos During The Ceremony?

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Our ceremony will be ‘unplugged’ no phones or cameras, please, until the reception. The greatest gift you can give us is your full presence as we say ‘I do.’ We’ve hired professionals to capture every moment and will share the photos with you as soon as we can. After the ceremony, feel free to take as many photos and videos as you like!

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Will The Wedding Take Place Indoors Or Outdoors?

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Our ceremony and reception will both be held outdoors, in areas near each other. Please be sure to dress appropriately and prepare for the weather.

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How Can Contribute To Your Honeymoon Fund?

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Having you with us on our special day is the greatest gift! If you’d like to help us celebrate our honeymoon, you can visit our registry online or leave a card in the box at the reception we can’t wait to share these memories with you!

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Will There Be A Bar?

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“Yes! There will be a bar with specialty mixed drinks and shooters, as well as beer, wine, mocktails, sodas, and water. We kindly ask that you be patient and respect our bartender!

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Where Is The Wedding And Reception Going To Be Held?

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The wedding and reception will be held at Brownstone Gardens Address: 91 Brownstone Rd Oakley, CA 94561

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What’s the parking situation at the venue?

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There will be free parking available at the venue for all guests.