Katherine & Charlie
FAQs
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When should I RSVP by?
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Please RSVP by May 6th, 2026
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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?
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The ceremony begins at 3pm and we recommend arriving around 2:30pm!
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Is there a dress code?
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We kindly ask guests to dress in formal attire. For men, suits or tuxedos are appropriate. For women, floor-length gowns, elegant midi dresses, or dressy separates are perfect. Think classic, timeless, and polished. A Note About STL Weather: St. Louis can get quite warm (and humid), especially in the summer. We recommend choosing breathable fabrics to stay comfortable while still looking sharp.
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Can I bring a date?
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We’re so excited to celebrate with you! Due to limited space, we’re only able to accommodate the guests named on your invitation. We appreciate your understanding.
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Are kids welcome?
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We’re so happy to welcome little ones at our ceremony! For the reception, we kindly ask that it be an adults-only celebration.
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Do you have a recommended babysitting service for the wedding night?
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We’re excited to welcome families to St. Louis for our special weekend! While children are welcome at the ceremony, we kindly ask that they sit out the reception. To help with childcare, we've partnered with STL Sitter, a local babysitting agency. Booking begins: April 7, 2026 (You can book up to 60 days in advance—we recommend doing so on or soon after April 7 to ensure sitter availability.) To get started: 1. Go to www.stlsitter.com 2. Click the blue “Family Registration” button at the top 3. Follow the prompts to create your account 4. Use code OOT80 for a $19 Guest membership (normally $99/year) 5. Once registered, log in to your member dashboard and click “Book Appointment” > “Casual Care” to schedule a sitter for the exact dates and times you need. Note: Memberships auto-renew annually, so be sure to cancel your membership after the event if you don’t plan to use the service again. Questions? Visit www.stlsitter.com/faq or email the STL Sitter team at email@stlsitter.com — they’re happy to help!