FAQs
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Is everybody invited to the ceremony?
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While we love everybody's support, we decided it was best for us to have a small, intimate ceremony with only our immediate family and the bridal party. It is important to us that we have quality time with our immediate family. We do look forward to celebrating with everybody at the reception! (We do plan to record the ceremony and are happy to share the recording upon request)
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How can I help the bride stay healthy?
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We have decided to alter some classic wedding traditions to better accommodate the bride’s health. The biggest way you can help us is by supporting our decisions and know that we are excited to celebrate with the people we love, in whatever capacity. These small changes will allow both Adam and I to enjoy our own wedding ceremony and reception. Thank you for your support :)
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Do I have a plus one?
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All guests will be invited by name. It is important to us that we get to celebrate with our family and friends on our wedding day, as guest counts are limited. We would love to meet the special people in your lives on a different day.
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Are my kids invited?
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While we adore children, our wedding will be child-free. We love your kids, however, we want you to be able to enjoy an evening kid-free. Parents and teachers both need a kid-free break every once in a while!
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Which door should I enter?
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Unless you want to be a wedding crasher, I would highly recommend entering the door on the left of the venue.
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What is the bar situation?
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Unfortunately, teachers don't receive adequate pay to host an open bar. However, all water, coffee, soda, and kiddie cocktails will be provided by us. Please plan accordingly.
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What time should I arrive for the reception?
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Please plan to arrive after 5:00 PM. Guests will be seated around 5:30 PM for the Grand March and Blessing. Dinner will be served at 6:00 PM. The first dance is planned for 7:30 PM.
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Is there a color dress code?
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Several guests have asked if they should stay away from OR dress in our wedding color scheme. We love our color scheme. But, please wear what you feel confident in, whether it is blue or not!
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Can the shuttle take me home?
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The shuttle service will be shared between the two weddings at the venue. Therefore, it will only go to the two hotels listed in the travel section. The shuttle will run from approximately ten thirty to midnight.
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RSVP
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Please let us know your RSVP answer by the deadline given on your wedding invitation. If you do not RSVP by that date, your RSVP will be marked as not attending. We would love to have you at our wedding, but our venue, caterer, and other vendors do require exact numbers in advance. Thank you for your understanding. We understand that emergencies and tight situations do arise, and your ability to make our wedding could change to a "no" after the RSVP deadline. We kindly request that if you have already RSVPed yes, you text Adam or me immediately to inform us of this change. By letting us know, we can open up those seats for additional friends, family, or plus ones.