Loading
Loading
Loading
Loading
Loading
Loading
Please RSVP by July 10, 2026

FAQs

If you have any questions other than what we have listed here, please feel free to reach out to Connor and I :)
Question

When do I need to RSVP by?

Answer

Please RSVP no later than July 10th. The sooner you RSVP to us, the better!

Question

When should I arrive?

Answer

The ceremony will begin promptly at 3:30pm, so we recommend arriving about 30 minutes early (3:00pm). That way you’ll have time to park and get settled before we say “I do.”

Question

Will transportation be provided?

Answer

Yes! Because rideshares near the venue can be limited after 10 PM, we’ve arranged a post-wedding shuttle for guests. We encourage guests to rideshare to the venue and use the shuttle at the end of the night. The shuttle will make loops to the Instant Replay Dive Bar and the Rancho Bernardo Inn. If you prefer to drive, you are welcome to leave your car overnight at the venue and pick it up the following morning. Please celebrate responsibly and don’t drink and drive.

Question

What is the address of the venue?

Answer

17224 San Pasqual Valley Road, Escondido, CA 92027. The wedding will take place at The Terrace venue.

Question

Can I bring a guest?

Answer

While we wish we could celebrate with everyone, we are only able to accommodate those formally listed on your invitation and RSVP. Thank you for understanding!

Question

What should I wear?

Answer

Formal Cocktail – Ladies, we recommend elegant midi or maxi dresses or a chic pantsuit. Gentlemen, a classic suit (ties optional)

Question

Can I bring my kids?

Answer

We love your little ones, but this party is adults-only — with the very special exception of our flower girls and ring bearers. Use this as a chance for a date night and make arrangements as needed.

Question

Where should I stay?

Answer

We’ve listed hotel options under the “Travel” tab. We have a room block at the Rancho Bernardo Inn and also shared nearby hotels without one. Pick what works best for you!

Question

Is there overnight parking?

Answer

Yes, cars can be left overnight, however, you must retrieve your car anytime between 8:00am -12:00pm the following morning.

Question

Can I take photos during the ceremony?

Answer

We kindly ask that guests refrain from using phones or cameras during the ceremony. We’d love for you to be present with us. We’ll have a professional photographer and videographer capturing everything!

Question

What’s the weather like?

Answer

September in Southern California is hot — sunshine is basically guaranteed. We’ll have hand fans and umbrellas waiting to keep you cool, cocktail hour will be shaded, and don’t worry — water and cocktails will be flowing all evening to keep you refreshed.

Question

What happens if I don't RSVP in time?

Answer

If we do not receive your RSVP by July 10th you will be marked as a "no." We will miss celebrating with you, but we must provide our final guest count to the venue in advance and won’t be able to accommodate late responses. Thank you for understanding!

Question

Can I dance all night?

Answer

YES. In fact, we insist on it.