FAQs
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When and where do I RSVP?
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You can RSVP by mail by sending back the one we provided in your invitation or here on our wedding website. Please Respond by August 29th 2025.
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What if I can't make it?
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You will be missed, but we completely understand. Please RSVP "no" as soon as possible so we can plan accordingly.
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Can I bring a guest?
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Your invitation is addressed to those who are invited. If it includes guest then yes, invite anyone you like as long as they are 21 years or older. We look forward to celebrating with you.
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Can I bring my kids?
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We want you to be able to kick back, relax, and celebrate with us, which is why we have decided to have an adults only event (21+). We appreciate you making arrangements to leave the kids at home.
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Do you have a registry?
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Your presence at our wedding is the best present of all and we are lucky to have you attend. However, if you would like to get us a gift we have decided to have cash funds towards our honey moon, down payment, and kickstarting our life together. You can find these on the registry page of our wedding website.
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Is there a dress code?
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The dress code is black tie/cocktail optional. We want everyone to look their very best for this event. For men we suggest a nice suit, blazer, or button down with pants. For women a dress, jumpsuit, or dressy separates would all work. Please refrain from wearing jeans, flip flops, or sneakers.
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What will the weather be like?
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Although we can't predict the exact weather, temperatures in New York at this time can range from 70 degrees - 60 degrees. Please plan accordingly.
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If I plan on staying the night where should I stay?
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While we do not have room blocks reserved, there are hotels available close to the venue. The closest three locations are listed on our wedding website on our travel page.
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Is there parking available?
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Yes, there is plenty of parking on site. After you park, it is a short walk around the front of the building. Signs will be available to help you find your way.
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What time should I arrive?
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Our ceremony starts at 3:30pm. Please arrive by 3:00pm to mingle and find a good seat.
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Where will the ceremony and reception take place?
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The ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception will all take place indoors in the same location. 425 River Street, Troy New York.
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What happens after the ceremony?
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After we say "I do," we welcome you to join us for cocktail hour were we will serve beer, wine, cocktails, and light hors d'oeuvres.
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Can I smoke on the property?
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While the venue is smoke free indoors, there is an outdoor space available for smoking.
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If you have any questions or concerns please shoot the couple an email.
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TheHayWedding25@gmail.com