Yes, you may absolutely bring your kids. We leave that completely up tp you. But, just be sure to let us know if they will be attending so we can plan accordingly.
If your invitation says “and Guest,” then yes, if not, we would prefer if it was just you. For specific cases, feel free to reach out to us. I'm sure we can accommodate.
We suggest cocktail attire. But we also want everyone to be comfortable so, if you decide to dress up a bit more or if you want to be more dressy-casual, that's ok too.