Rehearsal Dinner - Cocktail Attire Women: Dress (either short, or long) or jumpsuit; flats, sandals (no flip-flops) or heeled shoes. Men: Suit or slacks and dress shirt; no tie required. Welcome Drinks - Cocktail Attire Women: Dress (either short, or long) or jumpsuit; flats, sandals (no flip-flops) or heeled shoes. Men: Suit or slacks and dress shirt; no tie required. Wedding Ceremony - Black Tie Optional Women: Dress (long) or jumpsuit; flats or heeled shoes. Men: Suit and tie or tuxedo. Saturday Send Off - Casual Wear whatever you'd like including jeans, shorts, etc.