FAQs

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What time should I arrive?

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The ceremony will begin at 4:30pm, please begin to arrive at 4:00pm to park and find your seat.

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Where is the ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception?

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The ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception will all take place at The Vineyards of Aquebogue. The ceremony will take place outside (with weather permitting).

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Is there a dress code?

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Formal Attire | Black Tie Optional | Pastel / Vibrant Summer Colors Please no white, ivory, or beige!

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When should I RSVP?

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Please RSVP by August 29, 2026! We need to provide our venue with exact numbers by a certain date, so please don’t RSVP late! You can RSVP under the “RSVP” tab on our website!

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Where should I stay?

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Check out the “Travel” page on our site for more information on hotels. Please read all the options before booking!

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Is there parking on site?

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Yes! There is a designated parking lot at our venue that will be reserved for guests.

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Can I bring a guest/date?

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If you received a plus one, your guest’s name is listed on your invitation and will appear under your name when you RSVP. Otherwise, we would love to keep the wedding as an intimate event with family and close friends. Thank you for understanding!

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Are kids invited?

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We love your little ones! However, unless your children are listed on your invitation and when you RSVP, this is an adult only event. We encourage you to use this evening as a date night!