FAQs

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Where is the wedding taking place?

Answer

All wedding events will happen at Bourne Mansion in Oakdale, NY.

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What does Black-Tie Optional mean?

Answer

Black-Tie Optional means you have the option to dress in floor-length gowns, formal jumpsuits, tuxedos or dark suits. Keep in mind it is New Years Eve, so feel free to add some glitz and glam to impress!

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Are kids welcome?

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This will be an adults only wedding.

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May I bring a guest?

Answer

Look to your invite to see if a plus one applies to you.

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What time should we arrive at Bourne Mansion?

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Guests are welcome at Bourne Mansion beginning at 6:30 PM. The ceremony will begin promptly at 7:00 PM.

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Will there be parking?

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Yes, valet parking will be available.

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What if I have a food allergy or dietary restrictions?

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In your RSVP please let us know and we can accomidate.

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Can I use my phone to capture the ceremony?

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A strict no phone policy during the ceremony will be in place. Let’s celebrate the newlyweds in the present moment. We have a photo and video team for a reason!

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It is New Years Eve and we will be out late drinking, how can we get home?

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The newlyweds are providing a shuttle service that runs between Bourne Mansion and the recommended hotels. Ride share apps, like Uber or Lyft, are available. However, it is New Years Eve so scheduling a local taxi service or having a designated driver is a strong option.