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September 13, 2025
Hastings, MN

The Berns are getting married!

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When should I RSVP by?

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Friday, August 1, 2025

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What time should I arrive?

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The outdoor ceremony will begin promptly at 3:00pm. Please plan to arrive at least 30 minutes early to find parking and be seated.

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Is there a dress code?

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Casual to semi-formal attire is all welcome. The ceremony will be outdoors and the reception and dinner will be indoors, so wear something comfortable for both settings. The grass can be soft, so maybe rethink stilettos!

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Can I bring a guest?

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Due to limited venue capacity, we’re only able to accommodate guests who are listed on the RSVP. If your invitation included a plus-one or guests, please be sure they RSVP as well. Thanks so much for understanding!

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Are kids welcome?

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Yes, children are welcome! Due to limited venue capacity, we’re only able to accommodate guests who are listed on the RSVP. Please be sure they RSVP as well. Thanks so much for understanding!

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If I have a dietary restriction, can I make a special request?

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Please include any dietary restrictions when you RSVP and we’ll do our best to accommodate.

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Will there be alcohol?

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Nope—this will be an alcohol-free celebration. We're keeping it simple and focused on connection, love, and great memories. Plus, our venue has strict rules around alcohol, any violations could result in fines or losing our deposit—so thanks for helping us honor this policy and keep things smooth for everyone.

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What's mid-September weather like in Hastings, Minnesota?

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Mid-September in this area of Minnesota typically feels like pleasant early fall weather, with mild temperatures and moderate humidity. Average High Temperature: Approximately 70°F (21°C) Average Low Temperature: Around 52°F (11°C) Precipitation: About 2.9 inches (74 mm) over the month Humidity: Average relative humidity is around 66% Wind: Average wind speeds of 14 mph (22.5 km/h)

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Is there parking available?

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Free parking is available on-site at Schaar’s Bluff Gathering Center. In addition to the main lot near the venue, there are also overflow lots within the Spring Lake Park Reserve. If you park in the overflow lots, you’ll enjoy a short walk along scenic pathways with breathtaking views overlooking the Mississippi River—a beautiful way to start the celebration! Signs will help guide your way.

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What's the smoking / vaping policy?

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Dakota County Parks are smoke-free. Use of tobacco is only allowed in parking lots and roadways.

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Do you have a wedding registry?

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No. We don’t have a registry and there’s no pressure to bring a gift. We know many of you are traveling from near and far to be here, and that means the world to us. Your presence is truly the best gift we could ask for! If you still feel moved to give something, it’s totally optional and appreciated.

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Who should I contact if I have questions not answered here?

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Email Caro and Berni at TheBernsGetMarried@gmail.com

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