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FAQs

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Where and when should I RSVP by?

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There is a tab in the top right-hand menu of this website titled RSVP. Please follow the instructions on there. We kindly ask you to RSVP by Sunday, 28th June 2026.

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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Guests may arrive from 1:00 pm. Please be seated by 1:30 pm, ready for the ceremony to begin at 2:00 pm.

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Are kids welcome?

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We kindly ask that our wedding be an adults-only celebration, with the exception of children specifically named on the invitation. We hope this gives you the chance to relax and enjoy a night off with us.

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When do we eat?

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Don't panic... we won't let you go hungry. Canapes will be served shortly after the ceremony. You will then be taken over to the barn at 4pm for a 3-course wedding breakfast, followed by evening food once the party is underway. Please remember to list any dietary requirements on your RSVP. All meals have been pre-selected, including vegan, gluten-free, dairy-free & vegetarian options. If you forget to add your dietary requirements, please WhatsApp them to Daniella on 07882254237.

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Is there parking available?

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Yes, Pentney Abbey has ample parking on site. All cars must be removed by 10 am the following morning.

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Where can I stay?

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There is a tab in the top right-hand menu where you'll find a list of accommodation options.

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Is there a dress code?

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As you'll see from this website, our theme is forest green and neutral colours. Please wear whatever you're most comfortable in, but please, no white or cream dresses.

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Is there a bar?

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Of course! There are two bars. One is available following the ceremony during the welcome drinks in the Rose Garden. The other is a fully stocked bar in the barn, available during the wedding breakfast. PLEASE NOTE: THE VENUE ARE TAKING CARD PAYMENTS ONLY. NO CASH.

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Can I take photos?

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Please keep your phones and cameras tucked away during the ceremony so everyone can be fully present with us. We’re lucky to have an incredible photographer and videographer capturing every special moment, so you can relax and enjoy the day with us. Once the formalities are over, we’d love for you to take plenty of photos throughout the celebrations.

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Can I share my photos to social media?

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We kindly ask that no photos or videos from the day are shared on social media until we’ve had the chance to do so ourselves. We can’t wait to relive the memories with you once we have. Thank you for understanding.

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What about gifts?

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Your presence at our wedding is the greatest gift we could ask for. However, if you would like to gift something, a contribution towards our honeymoon would be very much appreciated as we start our married life together.

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Can I bring a plus one?

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Unfortunately, due to headcount limitations at our venue, we are only able to accommodate those named on your invitation envelope.